Am I fat? Am I ugly? You’re beautiful 😍

[Anonymous]

Every time I go on my social media or on G@G, the main question on the,”How do I look?” topicals is ,” Am I fat?” I opened this and saw a whole bunch of women with perfect waists. Wanna cool fact all you girls out there? All of the guys I’ve dated and the one I currently am dating, love thick girls. I personally only have really thick thighs but stop judging your body. I have very bad acne and every time I used to look in the mirror every morning I would cry and cry. People including guys always were telling me “ I can’t even see anything.” They seemed sincere. In most cases you put yourself down more than you need to. All of the “flaws” you see on your body aren’t seen by everybody else. I’ve never had experience with being overweight because I’m a recovering anorexic do to the fear of becoming overweight and due to depression . Do eat though don’t take that out of what I’m saying here. I just wanted to write this to tell all of you girls (and guys) YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE WORTH IT. AND YOU MATTER!

[shorty45]

Every one beautiful some how and how we look is not a way to judge, I met people with a modest beauty and I loved them the key is the personality not the body or anything like that, we only have to be ourselves

[SteveSmith1985]

This is so good to hear somebody say. This is particularly and especially good to hear from someone recovering from anorexia.

In another lifetime I was very very close to a girl who struggled so fucking bad for so fucking long with anorexia and bulimia. I do have some appreciation for just how much of a struggle an eating disorder can be. Good for you for getting to the point of being able to say this. That's... fucking huge.

Just don't forget to read what you wrote during those moments of self-doubt and insecurity that everyone has from time-to-time.

What you said here is right. This warms my heart to see. Congratulations. 🙂

[NerdInDenial]

Actually, most people do not matter. Look at the number of deaths that occur daily. Most people don't know those who have died and most people don't care. Even famous who have died will be forgotten in a few weeks. Every body has its flaws but to seek perfection is based on external validation. In fact, most judge and that's why beauty and diet products sell. It's a nice message you have, but it's not realistic. Strive to be your best would be a better message and even your best at times is not good enough.

[Screenwriter]

Even people who are classically "ugly"... don't fit any sort of holly wood or general beauty standard have something about themselves that makes then ATTRACTIVE!!!

And some people with the prettiest faces are shriveled, broken and mean... which ruins their surface beauty completely.

[Aliza_0912]

I mean I’m today’s society it almost seems crucial to be pretty or hot. If you’re not you don’t fit in. Even though yes I can agree people have their own opinions and preferences, however it’s hard to love yourself

[strateguy632]

the fact is, most humans are shallow therefore handsome and pretty are important to achieve to get favored by the many shallow people

[Summeroflove]

That’s sweet of you. But also remember some are dudes just posting girls photos

[PatriceONeal]

You can't compare being fat to having acne. Being fat is a choice and usually an indicator of depression and always an indicator of bad decisions poor hygiene and bad health. That's natural and immediate.

[Deliciouscookies]

I appreciate the encouragement, however, not everyone is beautiful by definition.

[Heavenly_]

You're beautiful too! thank you for this cool mytake!

[n0on3ask3d]

Wasn't it "Don't judge a book by its cover" ?Anyways people shouldn't really care what others think of them and just be positive about themselves.. smh

[Games_]

Beauty is a bit more objective with subjective outliers. Me and you know there is people u probably won't date if they look repulsive enough

[Vivaldi]

How old bearded men look is even more objective.

[Anonymous]

Who cares about this absurd reality, we live in a fake world.

[Greenbins]

Not all guys like "thick" girls.. usually desperate ones do.

I prefer only slim or toned women.

[Darcia]

Everyone has their own type of beauty.

[Anonymous]

I'm a bigger guy. I don't know if normal weight women would want me. Chubby women can be hot, soft too.

[Anonymous]

The pose in the last pic is a bit creepy looking. What’s he doing with his hands 😂 he’s okay but not exactly idris Elba

[SantiagoRomero]

i'm sure i'm worth nothing

[Marie01995]

Beauty is the eye of the beholder.

[Anonymous]

All I see is mountains and a sunset

[JustWowMan]

hot man xD