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Why marry if she or he can divorce you at will?
It's true. And more and more people feel as you do. It's hard to argue that logic. I will say that marriage probably exists not just because of cultural norms, but because it is a romantic ideal... Marriage & Weddings
Ihave a crush on my manager. My manager is leaving next week should I wait for next weekend or this to offer to go for coffee or lunch after work?
Carpe diem. Asap. You never know what the future holds. I find earlier is better. Dating
Let's play. How would you react if a person of opposite gender looked into your eyes and didn't break the eye contact?
Ooh, I love experiments, especially social ones. I'm really only writing to get your update later. I don't stare at people. I don't avoid eye contact, but I never linger. But from talking to... Flirting
What is a way to a girls heart?
It's apparently same as men's. https://www.womansday.com/relationships/sex-tips/a51511/eating-has-a-huge-effect-on-a-womans-romantic-desire-study-says/ Dating
Should I apologize to my ex for verbal abuse?
Yes, you should. The fact that you were drunk and breaking up still doesn't justify it. You don't have to label it "verbal abuse". Just explain that you know it was wrong, you lost your head, and... Break Up & Divorce
After how many dates do you start being in a relationship on average?
Lots of people are having sex but don't consider it 'a relationship'. Especially nowadays, with terms being created like friends with benefits (who are not even really friends you can rely on when... Dating
How do I fix my tumultuous relationship with my boyfriend?
You're getting some good advice here. There isn't enough info for me to feel I can offer anything substantive. Details matter. I'd suggest giving more next time. When I speak vaguely, it tends not... Relationships
Is it bad to want to know why someone ghosted? Do you ask?
Yes, it's okay to ask. But it's a delicate situation with endless possible reasons, so be tactful and gentle about what, exactly, you say/ask. Is this a guy you were/are interested in? Or some... Dating
Do you believe “nice guys” actually exist?
Actually being "nice" has evolutionary benefits, too. Humans can be cutthroat, but we are also a social species, and cooperation is advantageous. So, I'd classify it as us vacillating between the... Relationships
How to get a girlfriend?
lol My husband says, "Persistence. Work on yourself. Be the best person you can be." (He said this while taking apart and trying to fix a fan lol) First thing that came to my head is, watch... Dating
Boyfriend wants to throw me out over wearing his jacket?
You sound very reasonable. Are you telling us enough of the story/context? I read it out to my husband, and he said, "It's not about the jacket. This guy's being a dick, he's pissed, but it's not... Relationships
Can a toxic relationship be fixed or is it better to break up?
The crux is what one labels "toxic". It is a wildly overused term nowadays. It's therapyspeak used to bolster and militarize one stance, one person's point of view, very often. It's too subjective... Relationships
Which gender is more likely to ignore red flags if a person is good looking?
Men will ignore red flags at first, as they are more strongly drawn in by a person's physical appearance. They get to know personality over time. They will put up with more if they're really... Dating
I never get asked out by guys. I feel like i’m too loud.. is that why? what am I doing wrong?
Why can some girls easily get boyfriends and some can’t? Dating
Is it a red flag if my girlfriend gets insecure or jealous if I like a post on instagram of a girl who happens to be our mutual friend?
Does she act more angry and nasty, or more hurt and vulnerable? Rampant insecurity is a tough thing to deal with in a partner. If you love her, and she's sweet in general, you can try to build her... Dating
Why can some girls easily get boyfriends and some can’t?
Watch this. https://www.youtube.com/embed/89zqJ-TzPLE And read this. The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships You're waiting to be picked. You... Relationships
Balding guy at 20, what may I do to compensate for this flaw?
Hats are fun. I love hats. Great way to show some personality and style. You have to try to not be uncomfortable with yourself, because that's what makes others comfortable. There are people... Dating
Is this a red flag: Guy I’m dating told me to ‘learn the skill of being able to know when something is a joke’?
If one looks for "red flags" everywhere, one will find them everywhere. Think about what the reputation of bellydancers is. They are meant to be sexy, beautiful. They are doing what they do -... Relationships
NEVER show your girlfriend your weak side? What has modern society come to?
Most females are not like this. The good ones aren't. You experience this, you tell them that's a shit way to be, and you move on from them. Ladies, True or False: "I've lost attraction to a/my... Relationships
Boyfriend has been mad at me for almost 3 weeks, help?
"I don’t think I am minimising it but maybe you can give me perspective. So the argument basically I put my foot in my mouth with his mom while we were all talking. His sister is going travelling... Dating
