Bethany22

Questions

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Would a guy turn down hanging with the guys or social events to meet strangers at least at the beginning of dating a new girl?

I know it's not good to expect guys to always turn down other social opportunities after you have been together for a long time. But how do guys...

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18 d
2
22

Would a guy cancel first date because he's too insecure about girl's male best friend?

Would a guy ask a girl out but then cancel it, secretly because as the day approaches, he starts worrying that she likes her male best friend...

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18 d
1
11

Crush gave up after only ONE attempt to keep the friendship going?

My crush and I spent enough time with each other throughout the past two years. Although it's usually me who makes suggestions for activities...

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27 d
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33

Guys, would you prefer it if girls told you on the first date what she was looking for in a boyfriend, and what you needed to do to win her heart?

Or would that eliminate the thrill of the chase? Is there a way a girl should tell you what she wants that would be less off-putting and more...

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27 d
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Guys, would it lower your interest in a girl if you found out a close male friend of hers wasn't attracted to her?

You know how knowing other men are interested in a woman tends to increase your interest. So does that mean it decreases your interest if you find...

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1 mo
6
34

Can I go around the table handing my number out to men, or would that put them off?

If I hand my number to a guy sitting next to me talking together at a social event, but then he says he has a girlfriend or says no or something,...

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1 mo
2
13

Can girls make passes on guys by dabbing a napkin on their clothes when they spill something on them, or is that strategy only for guys?

Like when a guy spills liquid on his shirt or pants, can a girl run up to him with a napkin and start dabbing to dry it up? Or is that flirting...

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2 mo
5
23

If I told a guy I would still want to date him even if he was poor, would that make him want to date me, or would he have to be attracted to me first?

One of men's biggest insecurities is wondering whether a woman would still want them if they didn't have a job. Does that mean I can use that to...

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2 mo
1
24

Is men's importance placed on beauty in partners nature or nurture?

How much of the women you guys are attracted to have to do with your own wiring, vs what other people, such as family and friends, have encouraged...

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2 mo
9
40

For the men who avoid marriage because of the power it would give the woman, is that a sign that these men are controlling?

Many men think that women have all the power once they get married, so they tend to avoid getting married so as to not give women that amount of...

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2 mo
9
25

Why do women dream of marriage despite how much work marriage actually is?

While men tend to pay close attention to the signs of how difficult marriage actually is, and therefore get discouraged by it and want to...

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2 mo
3
14

If I'm trying to distance myself from my crush, is it childish to say no to doing a one-on-one activity together that I would otherwise want to do?

What would you do in that situation? Is it immature to say no when one's crush asks if you want to do a certain activity together, when your...

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3 mo
2
6

Why don't women want to at least be friends with men who won't commit to them, and why does this hurt men so much?

I have heard more than one story of men who believe that they should be able to become friends again with their ex after enough time has passed,...

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3 mo
6
21

Guys keep friendzoning me. I'm going insane. Should I enable them or remove them from my life?

It's really wrecking my self-esteem that I'm one of the few girls that actually gets friendzoned, when it's usually men that get friendzoned. I...

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3 mo
1
8

Crush's body language is sometimes reluctant/bored when I start conversations with him?

Not always, but often enough. When we're in a group gathering, sometimes he looks really interested in what I want to talk about with him, but...

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3 mo
0
6

If a guy isn't attracted to a woman to the point where he feels vulnerable around her, should the woman leave him due to self-respect?

Or is it unrealistic for average/below average looking women to expect that there will eventually come along a man who will think she's that...

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4 mo
2
6

Have you noticed that both attractive men and women giggle as a persuasive technique?

Is it a conscious strategy that they use? Like when the person they're talking to is evidently feeling shy and self-conscious due to the...

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