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I don't believe in fatalism, but it is highly unlikely there aren't others who would be a good compatible match for every type of person. Though they exist, they may be hard to find. Here are the... Relationships

It's more important to have a partner who is curious and open to learning rather than focus on comparing the quantity of knowledge each of you have. We all know more about some topics than others... Relationships

It sounds like you're very critical of yourself. You want to know whether the issue is not measuring up to the norms of others or whether your patterns tend to be inconsiderate of others. You'll... Relationships

The question is what are the reasons you find yourself drawn to rude cold guys and what would be the reasons you'd want someone like that to fall in love with you. At 16, just explore, discover... Dating

How can rejection be a loss... when you had nothing to start with? If you apply for a loan at the bank, and you're rejected, does that take away from the financial worth you still have? Of course... Dating

The first step is to find a therapist who can teach the two of you effective communication skills. Your fights are due to dysfunctional communication. There will always be disagreements, but there... Relationships

Yes, it is possible for someone who doesn't feel self-love to fall in love with someone. The relationship will probably be challenging, though, as the value we get from a relationship is directly... Relationships

All our choices are for reasons, so it's important you discover his reasons. He'll only share the truth if he feels safe, so don't accuse, assume, blame, criticize, demand, rationalize or tell him... Relationships

You are the child's role model. Obviously, you don't want to go to extremes in front of a child, but it's important to show the importance of being loving toward one's partner. It's OK to be... Relationships

You'll never have the power to undo his past. Just make sure his present is safe, meaningful and enjoyable. If he wants to talk about his past, listen without making any judgments or telling him... Relationships

No one can take advantage of you, unless you allow them to take advantage of you. Set your limits and consistently respect them. You can be respectful of a person without letting them walk all... Relationships

Let me help you with your English. You can correct any mistakes I may make. The man I'm dating made accusations about a male friend of mine, and I'm not sure if I should stop dating him. The man... Relationships

Fine tuning who we already are and growth are normal parts of life. If you fine tune out of consideration without compromising the essence of who you are, that can add to a relationship without... Dating

Respect and consideration for all involved is very important in healthy relationships. To get it, it's important to give it. If all aren't desirous of something, pass on the opportunity. Never... Dating

Yes, it can be very annoying when people insist on getting constant reassurance. The more you seek external validation, the more insecure you'll feel, and the more your partner will feel he's... Dating

This is like asking if rape is necessary to make love. You can communicate or you can argue, but you can't do both at the same time. In arguments, it's not uncommon to hear the other person say... Relationships

Unless you're just interested in being used for your body, don't start by focusing on sex. Guys like being noticed for things they say or do, so comment on what you observe and let him know how... Dating

I don't believe in fatalism... believing there is someone already selected for you. I do believe for every type of person, there are people who appreciate that type of person. The problem is... Relationships

We tend to be our own worst enemy. We look in mirrors and only see what differs from yesterday. Yet, when we look at others, we view them as a total package. When we view ourselves, we tend to... Dating

How would you feel if your neighbor asked you if you have plans for this weekend? If you say "no" he'll thank you for helping him move this weekend. If you say "yes" he'll say he has tickets to... Dating