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Questions

5 mo
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2

Why ask us for answers rather than ask those who have the real answers?

Are you afraid to ask those people, or do they refuse to tell you the truth? If you are afraid, work on yourself. If they refuse to tell you the...

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5 mo
1
3

Would you prioritize gaining tools before attempting something new, or do you prefer seeking help after problems develop?

People generally assume they already have all the tools they'll ever need, especially when it comes to relationships and parenting.

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6 mo
2
3

How do you view consistency and spontaneity in a relationship?

When it comes to responsibility and playfulness, do you prioritize one, seek balance or inconsistently vacillate between them? Are you consistent...

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6 mo
4
2

Do you share specifics of what makes your partner special to you, or do you share vague generalities and expect your partner to guess what you mean?

In other words, do you say “I love you,” or do you say “I love waking up next to you, feeling your warmth and knowing this is where I belong and...

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6 mo
4
2

How can safety be created and nurtured in a relationship?

What do you do to accomplish this? How do your actions differ from what you expect from a partner? Sorry for the spelling errors, but DALL-E3 is...

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6 mo
2
14

When you ask if your relationship is toxic, or how to hold onto your toxic relationship, what is going through your mind?

Are you looking for others to make the decision for you? Are you questioning your ability to determine if something is toxic? Are you just looking...

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7 mo
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13

Though money and looks draw attention, what do you prioritize developing to maintain value in a relationship?

People seem to focus a lot of attention on creating wealth or beauty to attract a partner, yet that’s like focusing only on the buildup to the...

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7 mo
1
2

When you ask strangers what to do, are you seeking to broaden your own perspective, or are you questioning your ability to make decisions?

Do you reach out to others to expand your perspective to help you make your own decision, or do you rely on strangers to make your decisions for you?

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8 mo
1
5

Do you prefer using good, bad, right and wrong or functional and dysfunctional?

Good, bad, right and wrong are used to push one's agenda onto others. The goal is to mold them into what makes sense to us, thereby minimizing...

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9 mo
3
4

What behaviors do you continue, even knowing they will always lead to negative results?

When was the last time you went 24 hours without accusing, assuming, blaming, complaining, criticizing, demanding, rationalizing, raising your...

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9 mo
2
6

How do you help people believe in themselves?

Do you talk at people, spoon feed them or rescue them (lowering their self-esteem), or do you facilitate the other person’s exploration and...

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Xper Points 39,969
Moderation Success Rate
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