OlderAndWiser

It's not a glowing endorsement if all you can say is, "at least he hasn't said that he hates me!" Dating

Words are meaningless. You can't "take back" what you said and you can't make him forget what he heard. You can try to show, through your actions, that you have great positive regard for him, but... Relationships

These are enough warning signs for you to pull the plug on this right now. You can wait but you will end this sooner or later. If you wait, you will later regret that you didn't act more quickly.... Dating

I understand that is not your opinion. The only person who might ry to advance this notion with a straight face is a girl who is in a relationship with a guy, she secretly had sex with a girl,... Relationships

Are you being hoonest with yourself about your intentions? "He was a bit of a bad guy" but you want to "maybe try and be friends with him." Why do you want to be friends with a bad guy? Are you... Dating

If anybody else complains, tell them it is none of their business and if they persst, refer them to OlderAndWiser. I'll give them a lecture about minding their own beeswax. When I was 23, I... Dating

Perhaps you are choosing the wring guys to date. Dating

Who should you date; who should you marry? ↗ Dating

It would depend on the person. There is a younger user (I think she is around 30) on this site who I know has epilepsy and, if I was in her age range, I would certainly be interested in dating her. Dating

You are not entitled to understand other people's behavior and some of your questions about others will never be answered. HOWEVER, you can try to understand your own behavior. You have been... Relationships

The problems are 1. other people will assume that the relationship is more than a friendship, 2. you don't really know what his intentions are; you only know what he tells you about his... Relationships

Exactly the right number: one! Dating

That photo is 1950's, not 1980's. Actually, I am more confident and assertive now than when I was younger, so I am fine with the present. And online dating is easier and much more productive... Dating

Went out late December with my girlfriend and another couple last year. Relationships

Yes, and I have done it twice on the past seven years. I was dating a woman who was a very good fit for me in many ways, but she was not willing to make me a priority in her life. I loved her... Break Up & Divorce