well I would say that about 88% of the male population masturbates and looks up porn. I think they do it to please themselves but yes it is very hurtful to women because it makes us feel like we are not good enough or hot enough so I understand your pain. Some people have a very serious problem because it is a very addicting thing
Actually it's 99% of the men population have masturbated at least once in his lifetime. In fact some suggestion said masturbation is good for people who have trouble with pre-ejeculation. I watch porn and I masturbate; my wife like it when I can last 20 minutes in sex. Believe you me, women, you want a man who is a 'pastor' and a 'beast' at the same time.
He left because he never loved you, it is another issue. If in the future you meet a man who loves you, the best thing you can do is to let him be. If you porn discusts you, it is ok, but don't impose on him, to lose him because of that is stupid. You see you ask to take into consideration the feelings of the people around you, do the same thing i.e. take into consideration the Nature of the people around you.
dont worry, guys would stare at anything that's naked, that's just how we are. its definitely not you though. I promise, all it is, is that guys naturally love looking at women
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Husband? You are being immature. There's nothing wrong with him checking out naked girls. You are making it so much worse by bitching about it. Next he'll be chatting online with babes.
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Can I ask why you have put a question mark after husband?? I don't think I'm being imature at all...this upsets me in a serious way and he knows it yet won't stop!! Marriage is about give and take. I'm generally easygoing and make no demands on him so no I don't think I am immature at all because I have asked him to stop this and because I don't like it!!
I'm saying, "Husband? Like your old enough to be married?"
I understand that you don't like it. But BOYS WILL BE BOYS. This is just life. He will NEVER stop checking out other girls. YOU could be the HOTTEST babe on the planet and he's STILL gonna turn his head when a hot girl walks by. It's nature, it's life. I don't like it either, but we've just got to accept it.
I'm not trying to be mean because I do understand where you're coming from. My boyfriend had a hot pic of a girl as his deskto
Background and it made me sick with jealousy. But I just had to get over it. He wasn't doing anything wrong. Haven't you ever heard "Look but don't touch?"
well at lest he not banging other chicks or maybe he's not that in to you any more me and my girl friend of 3 years watch porn all the time lol and she has a bunch of porn on dvd so alls I can say get over it and y don't you like porn who cares he's getting his nut off to a girl that he will never meet boo hoo hope I helped you
stupid broad scared him away by not embracing his fetishes and enjoying them with him. he did nothing wrong and you ruined everything by attacking him for it. shame on you.
this is so horrible I am so sorry, my dad left my mum 2 years ago now and even though that was because he fell inlove with someone else - he met her on the internet and has now moved to canada , it seems to me that internets a bitch :/
That is terrible! If someone is willing to throw away a marriage over some girls on the internet they will never meet he isn't worth it. I am so sorry you are going through this.
becuz you prb don't turn him on like you used to or if you ever did try sumthin to spice up ur love life or you are gonna lose ur husband to chat sites and porn and strippers then next thing you kno you gonna end up on maury
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what a bastard of a guy there are better gugs out there!
if you feel he will not reason with you leave him he has what he needs on the computer I guess lol
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well I would say that about 88% of the male population masturbates and looks up porn. I think they do it to please themselves but yes it is very hurtful to women because it makes us feel like we are not good enough or hot enough so I understand your pain. Some people have a very serious problem because it is a very addicting thing
Actually it's 99% of the men population have masturbated at least once in his lifetime. In fact some suggestion said masturbation is good for people who have trouble with pre-ejeculation. I watch porn and I masturbate; my wife like it when I can last 20 minutes in sex. Believe you me, women, you want a man who is a 'pastor' and a 'beast' at the same time.
He left because he never loved you, it is another issue. If in the future you meet a man who loves you, the best thing you can do is to let him be. If you porn discusts you, it is ok, but don't impose on him, to lose him because of that is stupid. You see you ask to take into consideration the feelings of the people around you, do the same thing i.e. take into consideration the Nature of the people around you.
dont worry, guys would stare at anything that's naked, that's just how we are. its definitely not you though. I promise, all it is, is that guys naturally love looking at women
Husband? You are being immature. There's nothing wrong with him checking out naked girls. You are making it so much worse by bitching about it. Next he'll be chatting online with babes.
Can I ask why you have put a question mark after husband?? I don't think I'm being imature at all...this upsets me in a serious way and he knows it yet won't stop!! Marriage is about give and take. I'm generally easygoing and make no demands on him so no I don't think I am immature at all because I have asked him to stop this and because I don't like it!!
I'm saying, "Husband? Like your old enough to be married?"
I understand that you don't like it. But BOYS WILL BE BOYS. This is just life. He will NEVER stop checking out other girls. YOU could be the HOTTEST babe on the planet and he's STILL gonna turn his head when a hot girl walks by. It's nature, it's life. I don't like it either, but we've just got to accept it.
I'm not trying to be mean because I do understand where you're coming from. My boyfriend had a hot pic of a girl as his deskto
Background and it made me sick with jealousy. But I just had to get over it. He wasn't doing anything wrong. Haven't you ever heard "Look but don't touch?"
U sound like a dyke. I wionder y ur anonymous?
I sound like a dyke? Maybe I should change my name to girly girl..
Maybe you should =)
Lol.
well at lest he not banging other chicks or maybe he's not that in to you any more me and my girl friend of 3 years watch porn all the time lol and she has a bunch of porn on dvd so alls I can say get over it and y don't you like porn who cares he's getting his nut off to a girl that he will never meet boo hoo hope I helped you
stupid broad scared him away by not embracing his fetishes and enjoying them with him. he did nothing wrong and you ruined everything by attacking him for it. shame on you.
this is so horrible I am so sorry, my dad left my mum 2 years ago now and even though that was because he fell inlove with someone else - he met her on the internet and has now moved to canada , it seems to me that internets a bitch :/
That is terrible! If someone is willing to throw away a marriage over some girls on the internet they will never meet he isn't worth it. I am so sorry you are going through this.
Bluntly I will tell you this he left you because you suck at sex and with your writing I can tell you have sucking personality too.Go figure.
There's nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex.
Don't even need the peanut butter and jelly as far as I'm concerned..two breads are better than bad sex :)
once you remove you are dess and stand in front of ur husband don't BE SHAME HE IS UR HUSBAND
n you ask him to see lively then alow him to do what ever he want then he will stop seeing that
u do it for once and I think it was perfect solution
men are visual...
look at my question about this.
and you probably look at those pictures too because all women are curious.
I think I'll still look at naked women on my comp when the thought arises, lol
Break the computer. OR block porn sights. If he's gunna act like a kid treat him like one. Porn is for teenagers.
Exactly DEF not for married men
Passive aggressive much?
It sounds like he may need professional help.
If he promises he will stop, but yet doesn't, he may be a porn addict and have to go to therapy.
Try and get him help before it gets even more out of hand.
But its IN hand...
becuz you prb don't turn him on like you used to or if you ever did try sumthin to spice up ur love life or you are gonna lose ur husband to chat sites and porn and strippers then next thing you kno you gonna end up on maury
what a bastard of a guy there are better gugs out there!
if you feel he will not reason with you leave him he has what he needs on the computer I guess lol
I have to say your suggestion indicates you need help better than the porn addict need help. For a start, get married, kid!
Why did he leave you? explain plz
Want to know how to stop that?
divorce