bc it offers men literally nothing but legal liability. no incentive, strong discouragement.
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Men get killed in divorce court, and I don't know why I'd want to give up all the sex I get now to be with one woman. I love women, but I want to be able to get p*ssy from whomever I find attractive at the moment. Marriage isn't for guys (or girls) like me.
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Money and allocation of assets during divorce. Add a child into the mix, and you're stuck paying child support for at least 18 years.
A friend of mine got divorced, and judge made him pay ex-spouse alimony (i. e. 50% of sizeable pension) for rest of his life until she re-married. Guy had to work temp job for 4 years just to pay for medical/dental bills-he quit after she re-married. Fortunately, no child support-kids were grown up.
I've been married before, widowed, I'm a mother, I'm grandmother. Right now I'm enjoying a selfish life. Maybe someday I'll settle again but not anytime soon. I've got a bucket list.
Being married is very difficult. It's not so much the routine of taking care of someone. It's a lot of fielding disagreements and being blind to their faults.
I don't wanna get married because relationships and marriage would be hard for me so that's why I like being single because I get to do my own thing and plus because I'm specilneeds with mental health I would have a hard time with relationships
I don't need a piece of paper or a ceremony to be aware that I love someone... besides, that piece of paper could ruin my entire fucking life in the future... so, what's the point? why should I do it? I have nothing to gain and a lot to loose...
I personally want to be married and settle down one day. Most guys who don't want to get married are typically delusional high schoolers or fraternity members anyway. That's just what I have observed where I live, it may differ for other people.
I vow to myself that I will never let love blind me into marriage. One day she can the my wife and the person I love the most. The next day, it could be the bitch trying to milk me dry. Women are treacherous like that. I won't allow myself to be put in such a vulnerable helpless situation.
Truth... you don't realize how much freedom you lose when you get married. It's not even about the opposite sex. Maybe you want to sit and not be bothered. Well, when you get married sitting is a no, you should be _______. Not being bothered? No, you need to explain why you are being so "distant."
I don't like couples who r always telling each other what to do n bossing each other around n not giving any freedom. A smart woman would let the man have some freedom, n not try to tie him down like a pair of shoe strings. Unless he proves he's untrust worthy there is no reason not to trust him, I mean he's ur husband. N he will love u all the more for not being a nosey selfish bitch, people need some space. Simply as that he needs his freedom, I ain't gonna marry some one who takes away my freedom.
That is why you live wih someone for more than a year before you even think about getting married because then you know what both of you are like when you are within close proximity with someone. That way you have time to see whether she is bossy, lazy, mentally unstable etc . You should really know that before you get married.
Cuz if we get a divorce i lose half my shit which is a load of shit in and of its self. why can't i just spend the rest of my life with her without being married? Its the smae thing, just marriage requires a ceremony. Like honestly, who cares?
Because being with one woman rest of your life is not sounds good if you couldn't live your sexuality for enough. Also if the man got many pains because of love, this might be broken his desire to being married.
I want to get married someday I don't see any major problems with it. I just want to appear attractive to the woman who chooses me. My wish is that we never fight and if we do fight its because we don't want the other one to get hurt.
I want to get married but at the same time I'm scared. Woman change on you and cheat. I mean yes, guys do the same thing but if I'm committed to someone I'm gonna always be the same and never change on them. If I change I'll change for the better.
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bc it offers men literally nothing but legal liability. no incentive, strong discouragement.
Men get killed in divorce court, and I don't know why I'd want to give up all the sex I get now to be with one woman. I love women, but I want to be able to get p*ssy from whomever I find attractive at the moment. Marriage isn't for guys (or girls) like me.
Money and allocation of assets during divorce. Add a child into the mix, and you're stuck paying child support for at least 18 years.
A friend of mine got divorced, and judge made him pay ex-spouse alimony (i. e. 50% of sizeable pension) for rest of his life until she re-married. Guy had to work temp job for 4 years just to pay for medical/dental bills-he quit after she re-married. Fortunately, no child support-kids were grown up.
I voted yes to marriage... I would do it again someday! Not ready yet though!
I've been married before, widowed, I'm a mother, I'm grandmother. Right now I'm enjoying a selfish life. Maybe someday I'll settle again but not anytime soon. I've got a bucket list.
Being married is very difficult. It's not so much the routine of taking care of someone. It's a lot of fielding disagreements and being blind to their faults.
I don't wanna get married because relationships and marriage would be hard for me so that's why I like being single because I get to do my own thing and plus because I'm specilneeds with mental health I would have a hard time with relationships
I don't need a piece of paper or a ceremony to be aware that I love someone... besides, that piece of paper could ruin my entire fucking life in the future... so, what's the point? why should I do it? I have nothing to gain and a lot to loose...
I personally want to be married and settle down one day. Most guys who don't want to get married are typically delusional high schoolers or fraternity members anyway. That's just what I have observed where I live, it may differ for other people.
Typical high schoolers? Haha, coming from the 15 year old... Wait until you're older and then you'll understand the reality.
Being older doesn't automatically make a person some genius, and we're in reality together already (:
I say yes to marriage. I was going to propose to my ex soon. And she left me for freakin Santa Claus.
I'm perfectly ok with marriage.
That's horrible I'm sorry!
Yes. It is. I feel like Tobey Maguire in Spiderman 3
I vow to myself that I will never let love blind me into marriage. One day she can the my wife and the person I love the most. The next day, it could be the bitch trying to milk me dry. Women are treacherous like that. I won't allow myself to be put in such a vulnerable helpless situation.
I think this is a good question for both sexes, because I don't see myself ever getting married
Is there a particular reason or have you just never wanted to be?
When you're married people expect you to have a family and I don't really want one
because i love my freedom ;-)
Truth... you don't realize how much freedom you lose when you get married. It's not even about the opposite sex. Maybe you want to sit and not be bothered. Well, when you get married sitting is a no, you should be _______. Not being bothered? No, you need to explain why you are being so "distant."
@ObviouslyBored - "you should be..."? What?
Bossing each other around. Basically fill in the blank with chore.
I don't like couples who r always telling each other what to do n bossing each other around n not giving any freedom. A smart woman would let the man have some freedom, n not try to tie him down like a pair of shoe strings. Unless he proves he's untrust worthy there is no reason not to trust him, I mean he's ur husband. N he will love u all the more for not being a nosey selfish bitch, people need some space. Simply as that he needs his freedom, I ain't gonna marry some one who takes away my freedom.
N I wouldn't expect a man to marry me if I tried to take all his freedom away.
That is why you live wih someone for more than a year before you even think about getting married because then you know what both of you are like when you are within close proximity with someone. That way you have time to see whether she is bossy, lazy, mentally unstable etc . You should really know that before you get married.
all hail Lord Klaatu, the master of GaG!
@worthlessvirgin LOL how did u find such an old post? Thanks though...
@Klaatu51 To be honest, I have no idea. lol :D
Never fell in love, can't see a future with wife and kids,
If you met a girl and fell in love would marriage be an option?
Not yet, I want to see who she is first as a person, I do not want to regret my decision
Thats totally understandable
Cuz if we get a divorce i lose half my shit which is a load of shit in and of its self. why can't i just spend the rest of my life with her without being married? Its the smae thing, just marriage requires a ceremony. Like honestly, who cares?
I'll get married if i met the right woman who was compatible with me
Because being with one woman rest of your life is not sounds good if you couldn't live your sexuality for enough. Also if the man got many pains because of love, this might be broken his desire to being married.
I want to get married someday I don't see any major problems with it. I just want to appear attractive to the woman who chooses me. My wish is that we never fight and if we do fight its because we don't want the other one to get hurt.
Nice answer, I agree about the fighting. Fighting is pointless n only hurts the relationship.
I want to get married but at the same time I'm scared. Woman change on you and cheat. I mean yes, guys do the same thing but if I'm committed to someone I'm gonna always be the same and never change on them. If I change I'll change for the better.
Depends on if you are asking men, men or boys, men? X-D
I wouldn't mind getting remarried (I'm a widower) but I'm more than willing to wait for the right one to come along, even if she never does.