Lack of commitment. Nobody wants to be tied down, when you are just dating you can break up easier, it’d still be hard but at least there is no paperwork. You know how the saying goes, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”
I consider myself monogamous and want it for my life, to be honestly, if it can make your comprehension clear about it, i risk to say im "monogamous as a woman" (yes, im talking about stereotypes), I don't like to have casual sex, im single at moment, but im not looking to someone to hookup, i prefer built a relationship first.
Actually im living a hard moment, because my ex cheated on me and i know I wouldn't never do it to she. Im trying to believe someone WANT and CAN be honest and commit to me the same way i want to commit.
In my total honest, i believe men and women are equally afraid of commitment.
I agree with you I think that is the part that scares most guys off. I just think that's a foolish reason to be afraid cuz when you get married who gets married for the marriage to fail when you get married you wanted to be forever. But I don't know I'm kind of old-fashioned so
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The idea of them just getting up one day and deciding they don't love you anymore, I'm good thanks
That may happens regardless of getting married
@angelin yeah I'm aware with that as well
Lack of commitment. Nobody wants to be tied down, when you are just dating you can break up easier, it’d still be hard but at least there is no paperwork. You know how the saying goes, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”
@Mimi1721 very true their are many cows with plenty of milk no offense.
Commitment is scary especially as lots of people hide their true selves whilst dating
Because they realise they can't fuck who they want with out legal ramifications now
For men, having sex with only one woman for the rest of their lives.
It's not just that. We do want just one woman sometimes
I consider myself monogamous and want it for my life, to be honestly, if it can make your comprehension clear about it, i risk to say im "monogamous as a woman" (yes, im talking about stereotypes), I don't like to have casual sex, im single at moment, but im not looking to someone to hookup, i prefer built a relationship first.
Actually im living a hard moment, because my ex cheated on me and i know I wouldn't never do it to she. Im trying to believe someone WANT and CAN be honest and commit to me the same way i want to commit.
In my total honest, i believe men and women are equally afraid of commitment.
@dazdaz That’s very nice to hear. I’ve only come across guys who want sex with multiple women.
@total what?
@total fuck off troll
Because all the relationship they ever had up to this point have ended, so marriage is scarry because it might end just like all the rest
Probably the fact that they are choosing. to be with just 1 person , that they can't act single anymore , comes down to being selfish
Modern culture lacks commitment in basically every aspect, relationships too
It's the level of the commitment that scares people
The same reason those the opposite way to not get married ;)
I think the reason is fear of assuming responsibility and the other reason is that men want sex only is not true love and family work
Probably the thought of being with that person the rest of your life
It's a big change that requires a lot of responsibility and maturity
I'm not scared of commitment, I just refuse to contribute to this world.
It’s just a ring on two fingers. Many man thots try to place emphasis on it tho
The part that says: ..."til death take you apart" ...
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I agree with you I think that is the part that scares most guys off. I just think that's a foolish reason to be afraid cuz when you get married who gets married for the marriage to fail when you get married you wanted to be forever. But I don't know I'm kind of old-fashioned so
Well, I also think like that...
And it's not old fashioned... it's common sense
@Desconhecida true but common sense just isn't common anymore. Lol
True...
These days stupidity is the common...🤣😭
Exactly and I just want to tell you it's really refreshing to meet someone that's like minded hopefully we'll get to talk more soon
@bklynbadboy1 wow.. a fellow gager also disappointed with humanity.. that's refreshing, indeed..🤣😉💋
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"Till Death Do Us Part..."xx
Commitment and expectations to be meet
Being miserable... its just so permanent
Divorce, fights, independence is lost