I used to but being a virgin is kind of hard these days especially because rim a sexual person. I still am one by choice and I just got out of a relationship where we were always intimate without going there. It’s just about waiting for someone who’s deserving of it
She's speaking euphemistically. Should she phrase her statement differently, why make a lifetime commitment to an unsatisfactory sex life? Does that rustle your chimmies a little less?
Nothing lasts forever. Relationships included. Sex is ur own personal business. Do what pleases you and fuck being judged. I don't need my statement reworded, i mean what I say. I personally get bored and wonder what sex would be like with someone else. It's life. Marriage is a lot of money spent on a signed paper and attention from everyone telling u congrats. Love is overrated. Why in the hell is celibacy still an act? It's 2020... lust trumps love. Sex isn't meant to be with one person for the rest of ur life. Sex is suppose to feel good, not something to over think. Marriage, dumb. Boring sex with one person for the rest of ur self induced miserable life, retarded.
@BoxySama I read that the first time. Maybe i don't want to. Not to be a cunt but on some real shit idc what ur views are about being a man slut... no offense. I only joined this app for my boyfriend... i think this hole thing is a waste of time. Again no offense
@CarrieLee that's an odd point of view you have, I hope your boyfriend knows all about it and knows you're gonna either cheat on him or dump him for another guy so you can feel a different dick 🤔
Test driving is somewhat comical as there are no guarantees the first time will be like the 10th or 100th time. People change from their 20's, 30's, etc. Sex or no sex fine, but to think having premarital sex will ensure great sex til death do us part is comical.
Not necessarily but definitely limit. I think a few is good for variety and experience but emphasis on few. A high number just doesn’t seem healthy. STDs are a big issue.
Im sure some do but not many people i know. I dont have a problem with being so in love you want to throw a party, thats beautiful and we should do it more often, but why does it have to be so ceremonious and stressful and legal and religious AND expensive! Thats the part i want to stay away from.
If i ever find someone and we want to be together forever we'll just do it and leave Lord and law out of the equation.
I thought it would be right if I did this well I tried this but temptation got the better of me and I also thought I was with the one at the time. But a freind of mine once told me a relationship should be more attraction not top of the list you just have to be attracted to them. Curiosity, Trust a lot of trust, patients and good timing.
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No. But saving myself for the right partner. I've had relationships but not sex yet, i'll wait until it feels entirely right. I wouldn't want my first sex to happen on the wedding night though. :D Most first times are uncomfortable or even painful and i'd wanna enjoy it and not be all nervous and inexperienced.
I think some people still believe in that and they do save themselves. While others are "forced" to save themselves for marriage due to cultural or religious reasons.
Very few do and I admire it, but it usually seems pointless. I waited for my wedding night, but hey, over 50% of marriages end in divorce... so did my marriage.
We prefer non virgin women because the love we get waiting for wedding day gives us the chance to create connection sexually early on. Wedding night turns to the party.
Nope, I do not. I wonder how long these marriages last when you wait? So let's say you do what your man created god tells you to do, and you save yourself. Then you get married, and the sex is horrible. Then what? Well unless you are anti-sex or something, I don't get how you would live with that?
That saying went out the window years ago. The only virgins are the hardcore religious people. Besides... what happens if your sexual appetite is through the roof... and your mates is... NO WAY JOSE. Problems from the start. Be wise and hold off getting married tii you have sewed your oats and really ready for marriage.
Sex is overrated. If I ever do marry, I want it to be for a lot of the other reasons marriages happen. Mostly, for personal security. So I don't have to live with or close to family, but safer than living truly alone. And more affordable.
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I lost my virginity at 14, and severely regret it. I wish I had waited instead of being peer pressured. In my mind for some reason thinking of saving myself for that one someone turns me on, and makes it more special.
No. I don't buy a car without test drive. My problem is that I prefer long test drives and car dealer on passenger seat says I'm obliged to buy the car after 100000 km.
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Of course.
Many people still ‘save’ themselves for marriage, whether it’s for personal/family/religious reasons.
The ones who don’t and are living more sexually active lives are simply more vocal about their choices.
I used to but being a virgin is kind of hard these days especially because rim a sexual person. I still am one by choice and I just got out of a relationship where we were always intimate without going there. It’s just about waiting for someone who’s deserving of it
You've got it all wrong
U wouldn't buy a car without testing it... why commit to a dick u don't know
honestly, I don't you know why are you female would consider marriage if we had not done it before, I wouldn't be worth anything if I was celibate
Try me then :-P
Why even pick marriage...
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Don't worry, my dear
I fully agree with you guys, I am on that side of the battle
Celibacy until marriage
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Hmmm... thats all u
I don't know why I am getting such a negative vibe off of you, I agree with you 100%
Ur talking celibacy... maybe I'm to stoned but celibacy is not a way to go
That is the problem, we are two stoners confusing each other
Let me hit you up and you can hit mine 💀💀
Women: "don't objectify women"
@CarrieLee
DM me
I'm pretty sure a guy is much more than a dick.
Talk about objectifying men lol
She's speaking euphemistically. Should she phrase her statement differently, why make a lifetime commitment to an unsatisfactory sex life? Does that rustle your chimmies a little less?
I don't play by those monogamous rules 😒
Nothing lasts forever. Relationships included. Sex is ur own personal business. Do what pleases you and fuck being judged. I don't need my statement reworded, i mean what I say. I personally get bored and wonder what sex would be like with someone else. It's life. Marriage is a lot of money spent on a signed paper and attention from everyone telling u congrats. Love is overrated. Why in the hell is celibacy still an act? It's 2020... lust trumps love. Sex isn't meant to be with one person for the rest of ur life. Sex is suppose to feel good, not something to over think. Marriage, dumb. Boring sex with one person for the rest of ur self induced miserable life, retarded.
@CarrieLee My apologies, no harm meant
@BoxySama I read that the first time. Maybe i don't want to. Not to be a cunt but on some real shit idc what ur views are about being a man slut... no offense. I only joined this app for my boyfriend... i think this hole thing is a waste of time. Again no offense
@DorkVader cute name and i was told today I'm to vulgar to conversate with blah blah or some shit like that. U did spruce up what i said.
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@CarrieLee that's an odd point of view you have, I hope your boyfriend knows all about it and knows you're gonna either cheat on him or dump him for another guy so you can feel a different dick 🤔
Test driving is somewhat comical as there are no guarantees the first time will be like the 10th or 100th time. People change from their 20's, 30's, etc. Sex or no sex fine, but to think having premarital sex will ensure great sex til death do us part is comical.
Not necessarily but definitely limit. I think a few is good for variety and experience but emphasis on few. A high number just doesn’t seem healthy. STDs are a big issue.
Those are my thoughts. Yo each their own 🤗
Im sure some do but not many people i know. I dont have a problem with being so in love you want to throw a party, thats beautiful and we should do it more often, but why does it have to be so ceremonious and stressful and legal and religious AND expensive! Thats the part i want to stay away from.
If i ever find someone and we want to be together forever we'll just do it and leave Lord and law out of the equation.
I thought it would be right if I did this well I tried this but temptation got the better of me and I also thought I was with the one at the time. But a freind of mine once told me a relationship should be more attraction not top of the list you just have to be attracted to them. Curiosity, Trust a lot of trust, patients and good timing.
No. But saving myself for the right partner. I've had relationships but not sex yet, i'll wait until it feels entirely right. I wouldn't want my first sex to happen on the wedding night though. :D Most first times are uncomfortable or even painful and i'd wanna enjoy it and not be all nervous and inexperienced.
I think some people still believe in that and they do save themselves. While others are "forced" to save themselves for marriage due to cultural or religious reasons.
Very few do and I admire it, but it usually seems pointless. I waited for my wedding night, but hey, over 50% of marriages end in divorce... so did my marriage.
Now I dont care anymore.
Im not a virgin but i would prefer to be. Last year most the guys i talked to wanted to wait til marriage anyways and i was down for it
We prefer non virgin women because the love we get waiting for wedding day gives us the chance to create connection sexually early on. Wedding night turns to the party.
Says my ex boyfriend now we aren't together
@Bootylicious905 you’re a guy?
Ohhh okay
. I was typing what douche ex said
Guys will say anything to get us to sleep with them
Nope, I do not. I wonder how long these marriages last when you wait? So let's say you do what your man created god tells you to do, and you save yourself. Then you get married, and the sex is horrible. Then what? Well unless you are anti-sex or something, I don't get how you would live with that?
No saving yourself til marriage is like buying a car without test driving it.
That saying went out the window years ago. The only virgins are the hardcore religious people. Besides...
what happens if your sexual appetite is through the roof... and your mates is... NO WAY JOSE. Problems from the start. Be wise and hold off getting married tii you have sewed your oats and really ready for marriage.
Sex is overrated. If I ever do marry, I want it to be for a lot of the other reasons marriages happen. Mostly, for personal security. So I don't have to live with or close to family, but safer than living truly alone. And more affordable.
I lost my virginity at 14, and severely regret it. I wish I had waited instead of being peer pressured. In my mind for some reason thinking of saving myself for that one someone turns me on, and makes it more special.
No. I don't buy a car without test drive. My problem is that I prefer long test drives and car dealer on passenger seat says I'm obliged to buy the car after 100000 km.
In other words you dont mind a woman with over 10 partners?
@Lexxii747 Are you one of those who think only virgins are capable to love?
Nope
Some do. Most don't care.
And some have a weird double standard, like getting fucked in the ass a hundred times and still calling them virgins.
Of course they do! My best friend is. It’s a religious thing for her. It might not be as common, but obviously some people still abstain.
Pointless you'll regret not doing what you could have done and so will do it in marriage resulting in a divorce.