Are there still women around that want to marry and have kids in the future? How hard are they to find? And would you like to marry and have kids?

[WhiteBoyChill]

It seems like such few women I come across these days actually have any personal interest in either marriage or children. They just seem so career focused and set out to be independent instead of just letting a man provide.

Even though women are suppossed to birth children and be their primary caretakers, they somehow no longer feel any obligation towards this role.

Hence why so many of them have abortions and reckless sex so liberally nowadays. They never stop to think about the other people they’re affecting because they’ve become so selfish.

As for me, I was raised in a traditional environment. So naturally I’m only interested in women who put family first and career goals second.

I’d like to marry and have kids in the future

I’m a married parent and happy with my decision

I’m not married/no longer married but I’m happy to have kids

I’m married/unmarried but not happy having kids

I’m not sure yet. It all depends

I have no interest in this

Other

[DaveJord]

I was married and had my kids, and do not want more. That would of been my answer, but I voted other.

Sure there are plenty of men and women around that want to get married and have kids. But I also belief there more men and women around these day that never want to get married or have kids, and that is not a bad thing either. I for one do not want to get married again or have kids. If I could go back in time I never would of married my ex-wife or had kids with her, but if I could go back to being 25 years old again I might r a different women and have kids with her.

[Guy13]

Get your personal finances and affairs in order THEN you might find a woman who has time for you…

[WhiteBoyChill]

I guess you’re right. Even though my parents met in college, for many guys that probably comes later

[Alwayreckles93]

Interesting because man your age all want the clueless younger woman that can't cook or clean a house much less know about kids. When 30 year old woman looking way much younger know how to manage cleaning cooking and working.

[Guy13]

I don’t know where you live but I know many 23-27 year old, baby popping, and home-schooling moms running both online Businesses and Educating.

[Graci_e]

I’d like to marry and have kids.

But not to a guy like you who sees me as a baby machine and sees my primary role in life to have and look after kids.

I’m gonna own my own business and make myself rich. I don’t want traditional roles to get in the way of that. I’d rather have a stay at home husband than have to stay home myself.

[WhiteBoyChill]

A stay at home husband is a loser husband in my view. Men are designed to be working creatures and women are designed to be nurturing creatures

[Graci_e]

That’s what we call a fragile sense of masculinity. Most guys and men I know are very strong, manly-men. They would still stay home if their wife made enough money.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well I’m not one of those types then. It’s a man’s responsibility to provide for a household.

[Graci_e]

If that’s what you believe.

But I would not want to rely on someone else to provide for me because who knows what can happen.

And besides that, I would to make a lot of money and have nice things. I don’t want to have to go on a whole search for a rich man to do that for me, who can dump me in a second. I want to make all that money myself.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well it sounds to me like you still value money too much and children not enough

[Graci_e]

And where do you get that idea from?

I absolutely love kids with my whole heart and I can’t wait to be a mum. I think it’ll the most beautiful thing. And I plan to have kids while building my business because I don’t want to wait - I want them as young as possible.

My business will be set up in a way on my property that I can be home for them heaps to look after them and not miss out on anything. As they get a little older, they can come and help me out with stuff. I can take them out to work with me in a baby sling wrap, a pram, whatever.

Funny huh? That’s why you can’t just a assume things.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You’re putting so much emphasis on how a rich lifestyle has to be part of the equation even though that’s not what’s really important

[Graci_e]

I never said it was the be all and end all. I never said it was the most important thing.

But I’ll be honest, I can be a little materialistic. I like nice, fancy things. I like mansions, boats, nice cars, designer clothes, etc.

I live in a big house, my family owns multiple businesses, I have my own ensuite and walk in robe. I have expensive shoes and clothes.

That may seem wrong to some people, but I don’t see anything wrong with wanting nice things. I’m not stealing from anyone; I’m making the money myself and it’ll be out of pure effort.

[WhiteBoyChill]

So why not find a guy who can provide those things? It makes no sense to be setting out for that yourself if you also plan on parenting.

You can’t have both as a mom. Its one or the other

[Graci_e]

Because I don’t want to rely on someone else to provide that for me. I want to make the money and I want to own the business. Guys are too unpredictable and you can’t predict the future. I want to try and ensure it for myself and my kids.

I’ve started this business already and with a bit of building, I’ll be making more and more every year.

I can have kids and own my own business. Who the hell says you can’t do both? I’ll have my whole family, my husband (his family depending) and myself to look after my kids. I’ll do perfectly fine.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I know plenty of women that say the same thing but it’s never worked out that way for them. Can’t have both from what I’ve observed

[Graci_e]

Well I will

[WhiteBoyChill]

We shall see. In my view your goals are unrealistic based on what I’ve seen proven in front of me but only time will tell

[Graci_e]

My mum, dad and uncle are multimillionaire businessmen. I’ve talked to a lot of top people about my business ideas and it impresses them. They think they’re great ideas.

The type of business I will own makes it fairly easy to run a business and have kids, with the way it is set up. You don’t know my ideas so you can’t really comment.

What businesses do you own? How many successful and failed people do you know?

I was raised very business minded and I know what I’m doing. I have plenty of people helping me plan and going over my ideas with me. I basically have the best managers I could get.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh. Well I guess the difference in your case is that literally 99.99% OF OTHER WOMEN aren’t born into multimillionaire families.

So yeah go and enjoy your life then.

But what do you even plan on starting a business on anyway?

[WhiteBoyChill]

My point being my existing argument still stands for a near absolute majority of the female population

[becee23love]

I definitely think that family should always come first and work second you can't get another life with them and a job you can always get again.
But it's also important to have things organized so that there financially stable for the child especially.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah but my whole argument is that men are naturally better suited for work so they should just let a man they trust assume that role for the household

[Anonymous]

Yes but we are all competing for the very framework high quality guys. You know
1. 6ft plus
2. Successful
3. Good income
4. Muscular/Athletic
5. Well educated
6. Charismatic
7. Good in bed
8. Big Penis
9. Owns his own home
10. Nice car
11. Lives a great lifestyle
12. Great sense of humour
13. High social standing
14. Dominant
15. Powerful
Let's be real there are few of these guys out there...

[Alwayreckles93]

Sadly Woman your age don't want to get married or have kids because they want the easy life having mom and dad paying their car, phone bill while mommy still cleans their room and cooks dinner for them. Girls your generation are scared to face the real world

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah. I’m just hoping I might luck out though

[Alwayreckles93]

And I thought my generation was stupid no offense to you. You seem like a great guy. Your an old soul.

[Alwayreckles93]

I noticed you act way more mature then my 30 year old ex.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yes. And I’m sorry that things didn’t work out between you. I hope you can find a great guy someday because you are a very sweet woman and you deserve better

[Alwayreckles93]

You are very kind thank you.

[alice55]

I’d like to marry and have kids in the future, just need to find a traditional man in my country which is quite hard

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well finding a traditional woman is also hard in my country. But perhaps we will luck out eventually

[alice55]

Yes, we can only hope :)
Maybe you live in a liberal areas like me cause I heard they were area in America that were pretty conservative

[WhiteBoyChill]

You’re definitely right about that. I don’t happen to live in the best region of the country but it will probably take at least 10 more years before I accumulate the wealth to move

[WhiteBoyChill]

Either way I think there are conservative parts of France as well.

[alice55]

Yes, there's conservative part of France mainly the more rural one usually. I live in a rural / urban area, like my village is very rural and there's lots of rural village here but there's the city at only 10 / 15 min (the people living in the city are liberal while the one living in the village are conservative but most people from the village are either old people, parents and children, people my age live in the city for their work so it make it hard to meet people my age).

[WhiteBoyChill]

But do you live in the countryside where people farm?

[alice55]

Not really, there's some sheep, nut, chicken, rabbit and duck farm but that's about it, also lots of lavender but it's not really a countryside anymore since those last 5 years there's more and more people from the city that come to live here (parents with their children) before they were only old people living here.

[bamesjond0069]

They exist at age 30. If your goal is marriage and kids and thats about it... you will find someone. If you want a woman with traditional values before she whores around or racks up 60k in college debt... good fucking luck.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah bro that’s what I’m worried about. I don’t want to get with a woman who screwed around when she was in her 20’s

[bamesjond0069]

Its easy to get girls if you're older however its harder to meet them. So id try at your age, but dont be afraid to hold out for the right one. Men dont have that pressure. But stay on point you dont have forever!

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ya man so far I been holding out