How Do You Feel About Open Marriages?

[Aphrodite801]

I hope I never get that bored with my partner to feel like doing that

I have positive feelings about open marriages

I have neutral feelings about open marriages

I have negative feelings about open marriages

I’m in an open marriage

[bolverk]

If my wife/girlfriend brought up the subject with me it would be, BYE - BYE, I'm gone!!!
If my wife/girlfriend said she wanted an Open Relationship, it means she already she someone lined up or has already cheated and is trying to assuage her feelings of guilt.

There are few Red Flags to me, but this would be a huge banner with the bells and whistles. It would kill any relationship stone dead, as her asking for an Open Relationship means it is already dead.

I would not pull any histrionics when she dropped the bomb shell.
If we were out somewhere – dinner etc, I’d just get up and leave, the same if I happened to be in her home.
If we were in my home I’d politely ask her to leave and never contact me again as there is nothing to discus.

Then I’d immedatiatly change any/all of my passwords to any/all of my on-line account that she may have had access to, including credit/debit cards and a credit lock, then I’d scrub my social media contacts and my phone changing my SIM card if necessary.

And if married I'd be consulting a Lawyer/Solicitor the following morning, to get sure to get out under the best conditions possible for me, with no lasting legal/financial issues to deal with.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Agreed

[SteveSmith1985]

It might be the most idiotic contradiction-in-terms ever. It's an oxymoron. It is impossible. I'm sure people do this, and are happy. And that's cool, I wish them happiness. But they don't have a marriage. Call it something else, and no problem, but nothing about sleeping with other people can rightly be called a "marriage."

[Bratsondanielle]

Lol I just got married 😅 🤣 😂 maybe I should ask him if it's open... but really no it's just like lgtbqsis2k++ : it's just stupid really

[Blackcosmo]

I would not like that.

[clampfan101]

An open marriage is not a real marriage.
Marriage is about two partners sticking together for life.

[Aphrodite801]

Will you be getting married?

[clampfan101]

When I find the right woman, yes. It’s my biggest dream. Unfortunately right now I don’t have much opportunity to get out and look offline and am still working on my shyness.

[Jerre]

I voted B. Very neutral since I don’t plan on getting married. In my single life, I do fuck several women in an open marriage. Both say I’m much better than their husbands as I can make them cum multiple times.

[Ironic_Method]

My wife and I sometimes date a girl together and it's amazing. If anything it's brought us closer together.

[Aphrodite801]

Ok, but would you be ok if she wanted to
do that with a guy?

[Ironic_Method]

Oh. No.

[Aphrodite801]

Lol. That speaks for itself

[Ironic_Method]

Oh? Enlighten me.

[Wise4myage]

They seem very stupid to me.

[RobEurope]

Its not a marriage if its open

[Aphrodite801]

Then there would be no such thing as an open marriage. Your feelings on it doesn’t change reality

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest I don't agree with it

[Anonymous]

I don't share my property

[Xtendable]

I voted A