In the event, this is a generational occurrence, I'll know that we celebrate 20 years this spring. Perhaps this is some thing that is being considered in younger generations? My father does not wear a wedding band, never has. I don't believe my grandfathers did either.
A friend of mine fused the two rings together and still wears them. Most people wear wedding rings. I couldn't speak about engagement rings, because my mom never got one.
I think I should have phrased the answer bit different.
So... I'd rather say "It does not bother me and..." ... because whenever my kids say "I don't care..." at the wrong place, it ticks me off and I always give them an earful.
by the way... I also had an engagement ring. I wore it for some days and then the realization hit me as well as the girl's side... that in our religion, men are not allowed to wear gold. So I gave it to her and she got it redone into something for herself 😁.
Don’t marry him. What you are saying is a tradition that goes way back in time. The fact that you had to bring up the issue should speak volumes. He should have at least asked you what your preference is. What others do is irrelevant. If your fiancé isn’t taking your wishes into consideration for the biggest moment of your life, red flags should be appearing everywhere.
My post was not very clear. My fiancee and I are getting married in April. The two of us had dinner with a colleague and his girlfriend, and he is the one who made the comments to me, telling me that I don't need to bother with buying my fiancee a wedding band because she'll never wear it.
Whether they fit together or not, if my future wife wore both, I would take it to mean that she values them both that much and it would mean a lot to me
I am married. We have wedding rings but never wear them except for special occasions. Neither of us like to wear any jewelry. There's really no "should" in this instance in my opinion. Just do whatever you and your spouse agree to do.
Obviously, there is no "law" on this subject and a woman is free to do what she wants so please don't tell me that she can do whatever she wants; I already know that. I am trying to determine what other married women do most commonly.
My wife doesn't wear any jewelry and doesn't wear her wedding ring except on special occasions. Same goes for the wives of my friends. That's all I can speak to.
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She's just going to pawn them after the divorce anyway.
If you are planning the divorce before you get married, I have some excellent advice for you!
my wife wears both rings. She has never mentioned removing one.
In the event, this is a generational occurrence, I'll know that we celebrate 20 years this spring. Perhaps this is some thing that is being considered in younger generations?
My father does not wear a wedding band, never has. I don't believe my grandfathers did either.
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When I was married she wore both all the time but I have seen women only wearing the engagement ring and just assumed they were not married yet
A friend of mine fused the two rings together and still wears them. Most people wear wedding rings. I couldn't speak about engagement rings, because my mom never got one.
I really don't care and don't notice it anytime.. it is upto her whichever she wants to wear whatever time.
I think I should have phrased the answer bit different.
So... I'd rather say "It does not bother me and..."
... because whenever my kids say "I don't care..." at the wrong place, it ticks me off and I always give them an earful.
by the way... I also had an engagement ring. I wore it for some days and then the realization hit me as well as the girl's side... that in our religion, men are not allowed to wear gold. So I gave it to her and she got it redone into something for herself 😁.
Don’t marry him. What you are saying is a tradition that goes way back in time. The fact that you had to bring up the issue should speak volumes. He should have at least asked you what your preference is. What others do is irrelevant. If your fiancé isn’t taking your wishes into consideration for the biggest moment of your life, red flags should be appearing everywhere.
My post was not very clear. My fiancee and I are getting married in April. The two of us had dinner with a colleague and his girlfriend, and he is the one who made the comments to me, telling me that I don't need to bother with buying my fiancee a wedding band because she'll never wear it.
I personally think it's dumb as hell to have to buy two rings. But, tradition is tradition, I suppose.
My wife always wears her engagement ring and wedding ring together. She gets upset if she forgets to put them on.
I had my wife's wedding band and engagement ring combined and added some extra stones to it.
Whether they fit together or not, if my future wife wore both, I would take it to mean that she values them both that much and it would mean a lot to me
I am married. We have wedding rings but never wear them except for special occasions. Neither of us like to wear any jewelry. There's really no "should" in this instance in my opinion. Just do whatever you and your spouse agree to do.
Obviously, there is no "law" on this subject and a woman is free to do what she wants so please don't tell me that she can do whatever she wants; I already know that. I am trying to determine what other married women do most commonly.
My wife doesn't wear any jewelry and doesn't wear her wedding ring except on special occasions. Same goes for the wives of my friends. That's all I can speak to.
I've never been married, but if I was, I would imagine we would come up with our own decision on what we would do.
i don't study other women's left hand enough to care.
And you are not married, never been married?
i am married but i don't care about other peoples lives lol
So what do you do about engagement ring and wedding band?
My wife wears both, on the same finger
Most of us do.
When I was married she wore both
I don’t remember
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