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How should I approach my husband for an open marriage/relationship? What should I do if he disagrees? (Page 2)
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Relationship over file for divorce ask for nothing
I suggest asking if he would like to watch. There are a lot of men who secretly enjoy watching their wife/girlfriend with other guys.
@kinkynicci I know a guy like that, his girlfriend is a complete bukkake babe and he gets off on her doing her kinks.
It's not uncommon
And the old " I know a guy" lol.
Nope def not me though lmao
@kinkynicci in this case nope, far to possessive about that type of thing. I have a lot of kinks but that is definitely not one
If you never intended to have a TRUE relationship with him, why did you marry him
This is why I can't stand the idea of marriage, too many unfaithful people
Why not just get a dildo? It can make things work without cheating. Or get him do do other sexual things with you if he can't really have sex.
Here's what will happen: he'll tell you that under no circumstances will that happen in your marriage. and then you are free to divorce him carrying the consqeuences of that financially.
imagine the roles being reversed. a man asking if he should ask his wife with a health impairment if he can fuck other women... man. the angry mob would burn down his house.
Sounds more like a beginning to the end to me. I really don't see any way of that going well, even if he does say yes.
At least I give it a try, but I hope he is open to the idea.
A divorce. You're a degenerate who made a pathetic mistake in marriage, you clearly are very selfish. Your "needs" are not needs
Get a divorce instead of living in your sham of a marriage
I want a divorce but I don’t want my kids to blame me for leaving their dad.
Have you tried toys or letting him use toys on you? He could use them to get you almost there and finish it himself or do all he can and finish it with toys to make you orgasm….
Or you could masturbate for him so you both still are doing for one another. You do masturbate don’t you?
I’m 31 with Cystic Fibrosis. I may as well Quit dating now that I see what future I’m in for.
Not everyone is like that!
Your husband isn't the problem it's you. You're old, insecure and hit a wall so you're taking it out on him.
This should have been worked out before marriage. It is probably too late now.
Definitely not. I don’t think the issues in your marriage will be solved that way.
But if you do, call me babe :)
Then pack your things and go. You're insulting him. He deserves better.
Just tell him this is the way it is and that you’re going to have an open marriage whether he likes it or not. It’s not like you promised him you would have sex with him and only him.
Just bare in mind an open relationship means he gets to sleep around aswell
I don’t have any problem with him sleeping with other women.
Very carefully if you care about him, but definitely tell him
Me and my first wife had a open relationship it was rather enjoyable.. especially if you have no boundaries and don't judge
Is it going to be open both ways? Or will you be the only one that seeks others?
Both way
I don’t mind if he seeks other women.
It’s more about you wanting to seek?
Yes only because he couldn’t meet my needs. I still love him as a husband.
How is he not meeting them?
Sexual needs
Will you add me please
Does he know you are not fulfilled?
He does. We talked about it before. He doesn’t know that I want an open marriage/relationship.
Very big step
Is size an issue?
If size is an issue I wouldn’t have married him. It is his ability to perform.
How many men have you been with sexually?
Please follow me
^^ yeah do NOT reply to this creep
@HelpfulWoman are you referring to me?
How is your evening?
Be honest: Honey, I need other men to satisfy me, but you can have sex with other women. If he says no, go to counseling.