My boyfriend doesn't pay for me? help! (Page 3)

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so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months, and we've barely gone on any dates .. I could count on my fingers how many "dates" we've been on. I'm his second gf, and his first girlfriend was his first love, first kiss, first sex, first everything.. and then they broke up maybe two years ago and she died about three months before me and him started dating. he said he used to buy her EVERYTHING, when they went shopping he'd buy her clothes and things, and I know for a fact they used to go on dates like movies and dinner etc .. he's also obsessed with money and making/saving money, he says that he works hard for his money so it's his and that's why he doesn't spend money on me.. a few times when we've grabbed a bite to eat I've actually had to pay for myself too.. its really been getting to me because all we ever do is go to parties and go to either one of our houses.. basically, we do things that don't cost money. how do I get him to understand that he should treat me as equal to his last gf? I'm not asking for him to buy me things when we go shopping, just a date here and there would be nice. oh and he didn't give me anything for my birthday or valentines day either. PLEASE HELP :(

heybaybay · Answer

personally, I think guys should take care of the bill all the time, and if the girl doesn't at least offer to pay once in a while she's not worth it. I had a girlfriend that would get angry at me when I didn't split it with her

Anonymous · Answer

geez...you sound like a gold digger who found Mr Scroodge himself!   lol  there is cosmic justice after all!

Anonymous · Answer

i would leave him. it seems like he doesn't care about you that much to be honest. most men who actually care about their gfs will innately want to pay for her.

jenn33 · Answer

you sure you're in a relationship with him? maybe you're just hanging out

chiefnavarro · Answer

blame feminism. equality. in fact I think you owe use 4 million years of back pay.

JayTexas · Answer

Ditch the loser. He is treating you very disrespectfully. Wait for a real man.

Anonymous · Answer

dont expect him to spend money on you. unless you are a prostitute, are a prostitute?

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