I recently got back with my boyfriend for a few months and I just started school full-time also working full-time. Boyfriend told me he's not supportive of me going back to school and wants me to look for another job that pays more. I told him with my experience I am not gonna get more then what I make right now which is why I am going back to school to obtain the degree and earned more. He told me he rather have me and my daughter live with him at his mom's house while "we" work on "his" business and me becoming a stay at home mom/house wife. I am not his wife although he said he would marry me if I just start cooking for him and maintain the house. We are having little fights here and there regarding to having little time for eachother. He would often complain "we just got back together and you don't even have time for me" I told him I am going back to school and I am doing it for myself. He wants to work on "his business" that he has not started yet but doing research and gathering resources. I told him Ill support and help him when I can but I am putting school first. He got laid off not too long ago and has more free time not and has been complaining about every. little. thing. Not cooking for him, spendin less time, and when we dont have sex on his time, he complain. What is going on with him? This has been an issue since I started school.
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It's your life and he already thinks he has the right to tell you what to do... And he's still only a boyfriend.
So imagine, how he'd be if you both get married...
Look out for the signs, he's showing controling signs in my opinion.
If you don't want to get bossed around, quit already.
Whether you go back to school full-time or not is up to you, not him.
If a partner doesn't support you with your dreams, they're not the one.
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You should do whatever makes you happy and not let him change your mind on that
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That is a freaking joke. If he actually wanted to marry you so much, he would have already. He just wants a maid and a free employee.
Find a different boyfriend.
Do as he asks
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