If your girlfriend/wife doesn't like flowers 🌷 as a gift, what would it sat about her personality?

[SabinaV]

[meetkitty123]

It would say that she doesn't like flowers there's nothing wrong with not liking flowers I mean think about it flowers are pretty but eventually they die and that's a big mess to clean up leaves everywhere drain the vase clean the vase put the vase away and mind you only 2 days ago you had to take the vase down fill it up with water arrange the flowers find somewhere Sunny to place them Work is required for this pretty gift 🤣 I can understand.
No please don't take this the wrong way I love flowers lol and I love receiving them but honestly it's all right if a woman doesn't like them and be Glad because Flowers don't run cheap. So get her a sweater a t-shirt a blouse pair of shoes a candy bar doesn't matter just get her what she likes

[gremlinkurst]

The question is too open, and "suggests" that the opinions to be voiced should be voiced negatively. From personal experience, I've known women that didn't appreciate flowers as gifts. With one girl, it was a sign of insanity; she was "officially" my girlfriend, and she freaked out when I gave her a dozen roses for Valentine's day, insisting that it was wildly inappropriate, that I had gone WAY overboard.

However, I've known many impressive women whose reasons for disliking roses made perfect sense to me: They were DEAD things, didn't last very long, and made terrible messes. "Oh," I once said, "you mean they're like MEN." Flowers are... dead, and don't speak to longevity. Live flowering plants, however, are a completely different story with most of these women: They last a long time, and need care and attention... like meaningful relationships.

[InferiorElegy]

Never had a girlfriend and I can say I'll most likely die before a girl ever likes me but even I know it means nothing if she doesn't like flowers, not everyone likes flowers and not every female has to like flowers and maybe she's allergic to them. Everyone is allowed to like and dislike stuff.

[Cynicaldreamer]

As someone that falls into that category, it means I value more practical, meaningful things. Flowers are nice, but I don't like them because they wilt and die after a few days.

NO. If you really care about me, get me something else: a card you wrote a sweet note in, something that reminds you of me, or shows you pay attention to my likes and hobbies, or heck, even food!

Example: "I was out and got you some dinner from your favorite place..." - perfect thoughtful gift right there!

[jspl90]

I mean I might bring a single flower not a wholebunch I would prefer bringing tea or something if I know she likes it since flowers will just die

[Diodoro]

I wouldn't associate it with their personality as a general rule. It would have to do with the reasoning. If she just said she hates flowers I'd be like, "who hurt you?" Or "what happened babe?" Lol because of the strong aversion

If she simply said she didn't care for them and looks at it like, "what am I gonna do with these?" And doesn't want to be bothered with it. I get it.

If she simply doesn't "get" the allure of flowers and doesn't relate to other girls in that way. I'd just say thats a unique thing to her personality. Wouldn't look as it straight up saying something about her

[GoldenAxer]

Awesome? My wife doesn't like flowers so much. I think she's awesome. She's not nearly as materialistic as most women. She does like to take vacations and hang out with friends and that can get expensive, but her pleasure comes more from having great company than luxuries.

[Bgurl2_0]

It could mean that she's just not into flowers and prefers something a little less cliché when it comes to gifts. Maybe a nice necklace or earrings, maybe even a stuffed bear or something like that. Sometimes, women don't even want gifts. They just want your time and company and that's ok. :)

[Wester1967]

She’s a typical cold hearted harpy who is just dying to give you an impossible sh*t test so she can have any excuse to dump you for her precious hypergamy.


Fellas, every time I sent flowers it cratered the relationship. You don’t have to do it. There is no requirement to do so.

[AdmiralSirJohn]

It says she doesn't like flowers as gifts. Maybe she doesn't like the fact that they're cut. Maybe, like my mother, she prefers a growing plant. Maybe she's something of a tomboy, and would rather he bring home a case of beer to share. The easiest way to find out is ask.

[Mdm617]

Unless she told you that she is really into flowers, she could just not like them. It’s not exactly an original gift either. Try getting her something more thoughtful or something that she really needs. Thoughtful gifts don’t have to be expensive either.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Nothing not every girls like flower some would rather something to eat, wear or even money.

[YHL6965]

Hmm, I think it could mean a lot of different things. Personally, I'm not a fan of being offered flowers, not because I don't like the gift, the intention or flowers, but because these flowers eventually whither and die because they were cut off their base plant.

[DonkeyDan]

Doesn't really say anything, there could be a number of reasons why she doesn't want flowers as a gift, not necessarily something to read anything in to.

[CaliSixx]

Female here, I personally think flowers are boring and unoriginal. Not saying I wouldn't appreciate them. But I wouldn't argue it if you didn't get me anything. I would love it just the same if you just hung out with me

[_Lynx]

I'd simply like to know why. Though I'll be wronged to make any prejudice.
So if she won't answer... ah okay. It means nothing in patricular, nothing deeper

[dustybiker]

“In lieu of flowers..” The person is just more interesting to buy gifts for.

[Smashingdoozy]

That she prefers things that are either edible or don't dye in a week or two. Sentimental.

[Smashingdoozy]

Die*

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Yeah my mother would rather chocolate or something to wear over flowers.

[Azura_88]

Depends on their intentions.
I mostly find flowers to be annoying because it looks superficial and momentarily love.
Also I dislike murdering plants just to give it to your date.

[Ninani]

That she doesn't like wasting money and see something wither and die just for her to clean up the mess because someone else thought they were pretty.

[Ironic_Method]

That she doesn't like flowers as a gift. There isn't any kind of deeper meaning behind someone not wanting a specific kind of gift.

[SnakeBoop]

Well, I know from my side, its just not enjoying having shit thats going to die in less than 4 days.

[Red_Arrow]

It says nothing about her personality. She just doesn't like flowers as a gift.

[DermalPunch]

Well I love getting flowers, not roses, and I am cool AF.

[Bobsyoruncle]

Uhhh...

That she doesn’t like to piss money away on useless fofarrow?