Should I return everything?

[Anonymous]

My friend accused me of being cheap, when I bought her a birthday gift, when no one else did, because it was a simple gift. I had the feeling that she was trying to take advantage of me. Recently, she said her mum is terminally ill. Which I hadn’t known about. The funny thing is that before she’d called me a cheapskate, I’d had a leather jacket and a silk dress for her birthday and Christmas for next year, as they didn’t fit my mum, they were top quality and I got them cheap. Should I still give them to her next year, or continue to give simpler gifts?

[Danny_dan92]

She’s ungrateful. But it’s possible fueled by her emotions due to her knowing she will be losing her mom sooner or later

[BoopBoopBeep]

Give her nothing or simpler ones, she doesn't deserve your nice thoughts.

[Anonymous]

I would cut her as a friend. A real and genuine friend would not be calling you a cheapskate. More importantly as you said, you had a feeling she was taking advantage of you. You are best of not being friends with her.

[Anonymous]

I say give them too her, but no more expensive gifts after that.