i totally understand how you feel girl. so u've worked hard for your money, your education, whatever it is - so you would expect him to do the same. your only worrying about your future because you see relationships, any relationships, at age 23 to be potentially a life time commitment. but you know girl.. its not gonna get better when he's already 23.. I mean,he will EVENTUALLY have to get a job or something, but it won't be tomorrow, next week, or even next month. this may sound shallow of me, but listen. how about find someone who alreadi has a car and a job..? this guy your talking about may be nice rite now, but when he starts ticking you off in that relationship, you will feel stupid for even convincing yourself "no car? no job? no biggie."
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Yea, its kinda like how girls always expect the man to pay for at least the first few dates. Doesn't it suck having to pay for everything? You have not even started dating this guy yet. I guess that you want to ask him on a date? However, you feel uncertain that if things work out he won't be supportive or at least support himself.
If you ask a guy out than don't you think you should be paying? picking us up with your car? A complete role reversal.
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