I guess no one likes a kind guy, empathetic to others do charities. Girls see those kind of men as weak and not manly. My original personality was like that. But people tend to use those kind of people and forget them after that. I helped one friend ( girl) when she was sexually abused , cared for her when she was sick , cooked for her and helped in studies. I fell in love with her. When I told her. She said no , that's ok. But she also told me guys like me have only value when girls start for looking for husband's and my talents in music , literature , science , intelligence don't matter to anyone and since I was a virgin , I was immature. She wanted a more manly man. I really cried one time in front of her because she was crying too and telling that she will commit suicide. She told me guys that cry and that like are immature. Somewhat she was not wrong I guess guys don't cry and I realized no one's going to love me for who I am , cause I am single for 24 years. I guess my personality is my problem.
The culture in which you are raised matters dramatically to how you look at life and feel about yourself and others and actually explains a lot about why you feel the way that you do without question.
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I just want a relationship to begin with
No. Wishful thinking doesn’t help me.
I hope I do find that special woman someday
I am living the dream
That would be the best person possible
I don’t believe in that anymore...
Why not Mr Manab?
I guess no one likes a kind guy, empathetic to others do charities. Girls see those kind of men as weak and not manly.
My original personality was like that. But people tend to use those kind of people and forget them after that.
I helped one friend ( girl) when she was sexually abused , cared for her when she was sick , cooked for her and helped in studies. I fell in love with her. When I told her. She said no , that's ok. But she also told me guys like me have only value when girls start for looking for husband's and my talents in music , literature , science , intelligence don't matter to anyone and since I was a virgin , I was immature. She wanted a more manly man. I really cried one time in front of her because she was crying too and telling that she will commit suicide. She told me guys that cry and that like are immature. Somewhat she was not wrong I guess guys don't cry and I realized no one's going to love me for who I am , cause I am single for 24 years. I guess my personality is my problem.
What country are you in that makes you feel that way?
Even though I feel country don't matter much , I live in India
The culture in which you are raised matters dramatically to how you look at life and feel about yourself and others and actually explains a lot about why you feel the way that you do without question.
Do you think anyone will accept someone like me?
The ones you are looking for are attracted to people that love themselves and others... once you do that they will be attracted to you :)
Always
I've never thought about it so... No.
Don't we all.
All the time.
Yes I have