My best friend is a guy, and we’ve been friends for YEARS. I’ve never seen him in a romantic way and he’s always just been my best friend. We have been friends since elementary, and now we are graduating this year. But anyways, I was over at his house and we were watching some movies with snacks and stuff, and I guess I ended up falling asleep (we were both watching the movies on his bed since he has a tv in his room).
I don’t know what’s different this time, I’ve slept over at his house countless times and he’s slept over at mine a lot as well. But for some reason just falling asleep and waking up in his bed has been making me think a lot differently. I was tucked into his bed so he also took the time to do so and made sure I was comfortable, and he went to sleep on the couch instead. I don’t know why I feel so different this time or why this is making me think differently. Is this normal? Does this mean anything?
We’ve always had the type of friendship that we are super comfortable with eachother. And thinking about it now, we really do a lot of things that couples would seem to do. I wear his hoodies a lot, he brings me snacks when i’m feeling sick or on my period even if it’s in the middle of the night, and we tell eachother everything. But then again, that’s just the type of friendship we have.
What do I do? He’s my bestfriend, and when I say that’s all he’s ever been, we have been friends since we would go outside and catch worms in the second grade. I’ve literally never seen him in a romantic way before, and I’m sure if he was asked the same he’d laugh in your face because that’s how much we’ve only ever been best friends. I’m so confused on how I feel. What if I mess up my friendship with him? I don’t like these feelings that I have. Because slowly just little things have been adding up that made me kinda wonder “what if” we dated or something.
But I just really don’t know what to think or feel or do.
I don’t know what’s different this time, I’ve slept over at his house countless times and he’s slept over at mine a lot as well. But for some reason just falling asleep and waking up in his bed has been making me think a lot differently. I was tucked into his bed so he also took the time to do so and made sure I was comfortable, and he went to sleep on the couch instead. I don’t know why I feel so different this time or why this is making me think differently. Is this normal? Does this mean anything?
We’ve always had the type of friendship that we are super comfortable with eachother. And thinking about it now, we really do a lot of things that couples would seem to do. I wear his hoodies a lot, he brings me snacks when i’m feeling sick or on my period even if it’s in the middle of the night, and we tell eachother everything. But then again, that’s just the type of friendship we have.
What do I do? He’s my bestfriend, and when I say that’s all he’s ever been, we have been friends since we would go outside and catch worms in the second grade. I’ve literally never seen him in a romantic way before, and I’m sure if he was asked the same he’d laugh in your face because that’s how much we’ve only ever been best friends. I’m so confused on how I feel. What if I mess up my friendship with him? I don’t like these feelings that I have. Because slowly just little things have been adding up that made me kinda wonder “what if” we dated or something.
But I just really don’t know what to think or feel or do.
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