I never had friends or a girlfriend or anything and it's all because of my ugly face. What should I do to feel better?

[Anonymous]

Psychologists were so evil to me. Gaslighting me and telling that's all in my head and it's my "personality" but it was not. I've always been a good and fun kid teenager and now a young adult but my face prevents me from living my life

I don't remember ever having a single friend. Sometimes i would put the blame on autism but deep down i know I'm nor autistic just ugly

Why can't i have a normal life? Why does face reconstruction surgery have to be so expensive
We only live once and I'm not even living my life at all 😭😭

[Anonymous]

Your not grateful or thankful you do have ugly personality. It’s all about your mindset and what you tell yourself! God put you here for a reason and also he mad you exactly how you are. You can always wear makeup concealer or bronzer. Or get your eyebrows done. So it can look natural a lot of men I know do that. What don’t you like about yourself?

[Asker]

Wow such a disrespectful and condescending attitude towards me miss
First my problem lies in my jaws and cheekbones so not much can be done about them besides surgery
And don't mention the lord's name in vain you're all evil sinners who have made me suffer

[Opinion Owner]

Um excuse me I’m just stating how it is you wrote that above not me. I’m not taking the lord name in vain sir. You need have a self check first. Well then you can only accept yourself. The universe made you how you are and you are saying that you don’t like the body that you’re in how does that make him feel. You’re disrespecting the creator of the universe I’m complaining about it. I think I’m done here so have a great day and just on who you are so confident in your own skin and even though you don’t like the way you look fake it till you make it so you can attract the person you want to be with

[SphynxUK]

Are you telling us you’re disfigured?
Or you’re just not happy about your appearance?
There’s a lot you need to learn.
You obviously aren’t ready to accept any help.
Maybe you’ll try again after you hit rock bottom...

[Asker]

I'm not disfigured asymmetrical or deformed but i have an oval jaw bloated baby face a slightly receding hairline (not too visible) crooked teeth crooked nose and my eyes are tilted downwards slightly. I can show u a picture of my face if you want to.
And I'm ready to take any advice so long as it's not random nonsense like "just be yourself"

[SphynxUK]

Having experienced ‘slightly similar’ feelings up until my 40’s, I feel you are the only one who has a problem with how you look.
I was fixated on my dark circles, size of my nose, scar on my forehead amongst many other things. I was convinced the reason people stared at me was because of my awful appearance. I found/find it very hard to have and keep friends, but that has now been attributed to the fact I realise I’m on the spectrum.
My image issues didn’t get better until I started CBT for my social problems. I started to see myself as others do. It was a long and slow process.

[Avicenna]

Become the person YOU want to be, not what you think others want you to be.

[Asker]

You're acting like those vile and cruel therapists aren't you?

[Avicenna]

I gave you honest advice. You're not going to be able to guilt me for that.

[Asker]

The kind of person i want to be you say.
That however cannot be achieved. I'm not allowed to..