his ex girlfriend wants to be my friend and we were sort of friends but not really and after she broke up with him she ghosted him and everyone including me and she was kinda mean 2 him i hear she regrets it now but anyway its been a year and i i felt kind of bad starting to date him but i never expected her to talk to me again. i dont really want to mention anything to her, but am i evil?
Nah, if you stopped being in contact with her by her choice then I don't really think you owe her anything in particular with regards to your choices during that time. Just be transparent that you're dating and if she can't handle that then y'all's friendship probably won't happen and if she really does want to be friends with you knowing this then she's probably chill enough about it that there's no need to feel guilty. But you definitely should tell her. If she's on really bad terms with him still that could really hurt someone down the line when she finds out (because she will eventually).
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Not really, he moved on, you moved on from the friendship when she ignored you, you wanted a boyfriend and time past, it's just how life goes, it only feels different because y'all know each other
You're not evil, but I don't see why you would be friends with her
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You're fine. It's not like you could see that this would happen. It's ok to go out with him.
Don’t feel bad. She sounds like a bitch.
Nah, you haven't done anything wrong.
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