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You have nothing to be embarrassed about. Our scars are who we are. It’s not like we choose to have them. They are stories. Some have really good stories behind them and others, well they might remind us of a moment in time when things were pretty tough. It sounds like he really likes you. If that’s the case, he’ll love your scars too. Trust me. You have nothing to worry about.
Girl your body is very beautiful! Don’t let a scare and complete accident limit how much you allow people to love you. If he truly loves you he will love your scares and if what you said in an earlier post about him kissing your chest scare then he will also love on these scares. Just let him love you.
Hanny, don't be worried about it. You're a fighter and a champ. Talk honestly about this to him. I'm sure that he would appreciate your honesty. These are superficial imperfections which don't matter much. Stay safe and healthy. I've been tested positive for Covid-19 and am in quarantine at home.
You could possibly have that scar revised with plastic surgery, but it doesn't look bad at all. Your boyfriend, if he is a decent guy at all, won't mind it. I certainly would not, and I have seen far worse and not minded. It's what is inside that counts, not the outward appearance.
I have a couple of those from heart surgery (single bypass). I just ignore it as an old battle scar. It doesn't change who I am. If your boyfriend can't deal with it, then he's just kind of shallow. He's not perfect either.
Scars may not look nice, but don't actually change how attractive we find people. There have been studies confirming this and everything. (Actually some evidence mild facial scars on men make them more attractive for short term relationships).
You expect it will disappear or become pretty with time? Well answer is no.
Just show it to him and stop overthinking.
Obviously when you ready.
By delaying it you get yourself deeper in depression, just get it over with, you will feel much better then.
What he expects? That everything is like it was before there? Is he unaware how long you been sick and with what or he is just stupid?
i don't think those scars make you ugly. there are definitely scars that i would consider unsightly but those just are on the level of a mole or something to me. no reason to feel insecure in my opinion.
Wear a shirt that shows off your midriff and own it... nothing wrong with being a survivor and having a badge to prove it.
There’s nothing to feel insecure about the scar. It’s a scar staring that you are survivor. Your boyfriend won’t get turned off.