Do you think I would have been better off born as a girl than a boy?

[WhereIsMyLover]

I feel very fucking subhuman and a beta male for sure.

I am 5'6" which is short for a male. For a female, it would have been perfect.

I have never had a girlfriend before. If I was a woman, I'd definitely would have had a boyfriend by now if not already be married.

It sucks for men because they usually have to be the one to initiate, versus for women, they are the ones being pursued.

Yes

No

[NathanDavis]

just give up on the idea of having an "18 year old virgin with ZERO experience in any kind of relationships, that had not even looked at a man before", just quit that bullshit idea, then get some professional help and you might still do something as you are, a male.

[WhereIsMyLover]

I don't care if she is a virgin or not. I care more if she shared an emotional bond or connection with a guy before.

[NathanDavis]

"more"

[Iamawesomedog]

I mean, there’s more to life than relationships, but if you want one, you can just set up a tinder/bumble/okcupid where you make it very clear what you want in a relationship and in the meantime have a relationship on second life or some other online rpg. Also, if you feel bad for being beta, the pictures on the anime flair of r/rolereversal might make you feel better. Not everyone likes manly men.
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[Ninjazzed]

Being a man is miles better and easier than being a woman, don’t ever take that for granted.
Just try to improve yourself as an individual.

[IHateBeingaMan]

well depends on the perspective or mindset, but women it seems are basically guaranteed dates or relationships for simply just existing, it doesn't work that way normally if you are a guy, human male, since guys have always been expected to do the heavy-lifting in terms of starting a relationship, thats why i get annoyed when people say that women need skills to get a boyfriend or attract a guy, when it looks like everything simply "just happens", for women.

[WhereIsMyLover]

I agree

[_piotr]

Probably yes. In western world, being a woman is 200% easier than being man. Society treats them as a superior beings.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Do you feel like a girl inside?

[WhereIsMyLover]

No. It is just that I suck being a man, so I wonder what it would have been like if I was a woman instead.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Different. Girls have problems too.

[WhereIsMyLover]

Sometimes I do feel effeminate in a lot of ways. But I couldn't become a tranny.

[WhereIsMyLover]

At least women have it easier acquiring a romantic partner.

[Gwenhwyfar]

We don’t have it easier.

Do you prefer male or female pronouns?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Nvm. I think you already answered that.

It’s impossible for me to tell if you would’ve been better off being born a girl because better off is such a subjective standard.

[CrazyGirl1999]

I would like to be born as a man

[Blackcupcake]

Self improvement?