Like trying to find some random thing I lost, could spend all my time looking for it. Or being so uncomfortable with how I look in certain clothes that I just won't leave. Just tiny stuff that really doesn't matter but my anxiety goes through the roof.
Have someone seizing or witness a car crash or something like that though and I'm cool as a cucumber.
Wow that is odd. I mean the things itself are not because they seem common. But its just odd that the big things dont bother you while the small things do
What you want to eat? Craving tacos right now ngl. What you want to wear? Clothes for the Summer. What your major will be? Not in school. What your career will be? Working with kids.
I take big decisions quite easily, moved to multiple countries on my own. But I don't roll the dice, meeting people, nah. Go on an adventure around the area, nah. Etc.
Lmao thats funny cause i agree about the adventure part haha. Not my style. I dont see meeting new people as a big deal cause i like to socialize. But i dont care to meet new people because im not looking to take them further with me in life. As for rolling the dice? Well i love to gamble so i take risks... just not daredevil level type risks
lol, I suppose it would be, considering i'd only date a woman who wanted the same things, and therfor she would also need to know everything she wants, and thats definitely going to effect attraction.
But yeah, I have a list, a super long list, and the only reason it ever gets edited is if something new comes out and its different or better than whats already on the list.
You can be pessimistic and reslistic just as i can be optimistic and realistic. But the problem is, the pessimist side holds you bacj from going for what u want
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I’m decisive about faith and indecisive about earning money
What specifically about earning money
I had over 200 book ideas and spent months trying to decide on the best one
I’m deceive in most aspects of my life I know exact what I want out of life and where I want to go in it and that hasn’t changed in 18 years.
Amazing. The big factors haven't changed for me since age 12
Mhmm that’s a good thing.
I’m pretty decisive on everything I like making decisions even if it’s the wrong decision
Yea i like being in charge of making the decisions too. Probably why i somewhat like a submissive (outside of the bedroom) type of guy
I have an idea of what I want but I'm open to changing my mind on them at this point in life.
Aww i see
Decisive - all major decisions and most emergencies.
Indecisive- most meaningless trivial things are damn near crippling some days
That makes sense but trivial like what
Like trying to find some random thing I lost, could spend all my time looking for it. Or being so uncomfortable with how I look in certain clothes that I just won't leave. Just tiny stuff that really doesn't matter but my anxiety goes through the roof.
Have someone seizing or witness a car crash or something like that though and I'm cool as a cucumber.
I don't get it
Wow that is odd. I mean the things itself are not because they seem common. But its just odd that the big things dont bother you while the small things do
Didn't start happening until after I got jumped really bad. Ever since then it's been like that. But yea it feels backwards
Im sorry that happened to you. I was almost jumped by two grades of girls and its part of why i just dont trust females
Another reason I don't trust makes :p
They got me pretty damn good, wanna see what I looked like the day after?
Not at night. I dont want to go to sleep sad
That's fair, I didn't realize how late it was
Yea its after 1am here. Looking at your trauma may give me nightmares. I really hate that happened to you
I kind of hate it. It was a valuable experience though.. hard learned but yea
What you want to eat? Craving tacos right now ngl. What you want to wear? Clothes for the Summer. What your major will be? Not in school. What your career will be? Working with kids.
Okay but what about the big dog questions like what you want in a partner and where you want to live and build a home
Yeah I know the answer to those questions
I take big decisions quite easily, moved to multiple countries on my own. But I don't roll the dice, meeting people, nah. Go on an adventure around the area, nah. Etc.
Lmao thats funny cause i agree about the adventure part haha. Not my style. I dont see meeting new people as a big deal cause i like to socialize. But i dont care to meet new people because im not looking to take them further with me in life. As for rolling the dice? Well i love to gamble so i take risks... just not daredevil level type risks
I’m indecisive when it comes to food… everything else is clear and set
Thats good
None, I know everything I want in life, down to the very last detail.
Thats hot
lol, I suppose it would be, considering i'd only date a woman who wanted the same things, and therfor she would also need to know everything she wants, and thats definitely going to effect attraction.
But yeah, I have a list, a super long list, and the only reason it ever gets edited is if something new comes out and its different or better than whats already on the list.
I agree with that. Dont compromise unless its for something even greater than you expected
I'm a Narcissist thus I prefer perfection in life which sometimes leads to disappointment
Lol i can relate at times haha
All I want in life is to have a wife, 2-3 kids, a good writing career and a nice car
Make moves all i can say. We’re all just chess pieces on a board
I know what I want in life I just know it's not possible
Nah i think you're realistic
Really? That's a first, most people think I'm pessimistic but I really try to look at the full picture of things
You can be pessimistic and reslistic just as i can be optimistic and realistic. But the problem is, the pessimist side holds you bacj from going for what u want
A lot. Mostly my career.
Yea thats a common one for us all
I really can't tell!!
Indecisive lmao
I am lacking in the dating and social department
But what about it makes you feel indecisive
I'm afraid of people especially women i'm interested in. I have lots of baggage