How exactly is a nice, feminine woman like?

[Anonymous]

Even though I've been told I still have feminine qualities, many men have been complaining that many modern women lack it. What exactly is a feminine woman to you?

I'll give you my example and you judge:
- I'm agnostic but willing to let you believe in whatever you want to. Just don't force god nor your beliefs on me.
- I like everything that has to do with martial arts. I'm taking Judo for 6 months now. That's the only time I appear rough; during classes. I'm softer in personality outside classes.
- Sometimes when I have time, I like cooking and making some desserts.
- I've had failed relationship. I had intention of one day wanting kids with him but he turned out to be a cheater. I can't settle for that. Hopefully my 2nd is my last.
- I want kids but would like to at least finish college. I still got 2 more years.
- I'm saving money to invest it on a house and a business. I'm living with my parents at this moment.
- Animal lover; I believe every living thing deserves respect.

[Lliam]

Will you marry me? LOL just kidding. I'm way too old for you and am already happily married.

Seriously, though, you sound absolutely great.

You already sound bright, hard working, responsible and determined to be independent. You have healthy values, self esteem, hopes, dreams and plans for the future.

You're not a door mat. Congrats on dumping the cheater and standing on your own two feet.

To being a nice, feminine woman, aside from the things you mentioned I'll add:
- Looking pretty - a cute hair style, good skin care and grooming, understated makeup, tastefully feminine clothing choices.
- Feminine mannerisms - exuberance, laughing, smiling, and the way you move and walk.
- Enjoy being a lady and playing the lady-gentleman game. You know, confident and witty yet demure at the same time. Make a man feel like a man by acting like he makes you feel safe and secure. Let him treat you like a delicate flower.
- Revel in your female sexuality and all that entails when you're with the right partner.

You probably already do that stuff but you didn't mention it.

Best of luck for a bright future. :-)

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's hard to explain really because it isn't necessarily what a woman does that makes her feminine, it's how she does it..
Let me use my neighbours to give you an example. We all have bins, and put out the rubbish ready to be collected. I always see this one woman who goes out there with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth. She looks like she just got out of bed. There is another who always looks nice. Some would say glamorous and I don't mean it in a sexual way, she just has grace and poise.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I try never to judge, but one looks feminine the other does not.. From my description of the two, it's obvious which one I'm saying is feminine.. see what I mean?

[Asker]

yeah the one coming with a cigarette indeed seems negative and bad on her image
I hear that several men actually don't have a problem with a woman having a profession, practicing a sport nor her religion or lack of it. They say she can be any or all of that and still retain her feminine qualities.
For a while I really though they wanted the traditional, religious (devoted Christian or other religion) virgin that goes to church and read bible housewife type. It turns out most weren't asking for that either.

[TommyMountainFigure]

For me personally? I want a woman I'm with to be happy.. If she wants to do all those things fine,., same as if she does none of them.. I see it that because we are together it doesn't mean she loses her identity.

[Anonymous]

Being feminine is about understanding that men and women aren't equal. We both deserve respect, but have different roles to play and the feminine one is more being the nurturer, being faithful and family oriented, supporting your man, making him feel like a man. It's not acting angry and having the "I don't need anyone" attitude. Your man needs his woman and you need your man. It's mutual respect with different roles, not trying to compete or be superior to your man.

[Asker]

Interesting. I'm finding out that several men don't mind a woman that wants to study or do what she likes as long as she keeps her feminine qualities. They aren't necessarily asking for a devoted, religious church girl.
I'm only tough and act competitive in Judo classes (esp during sparring) but afterwards, I revert back to my reserved, soft side.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker yes but if you mean guys like @Lliam he's not a real man, he's what's called a simp. Real men lead, he is a submissive cuck guy who panders to feminists who disrespect him. Read his comments. He goes overboard trying to show how much of a feminist he is and how wonderful an independent, strong woman is when in fact this is the opposite of what most men are attracted to. Most men want the kind of things they've wanted for centuries. It's only recently that feminists have tried to destroy relations between men and women. Men need to be needed. If you're a woman, you should make a man feel needed, not disposable like so many do today.

[Asker]

What's wrong with having plans for the future and goals? Raising a child is expensive nowadays and two incomes would be more helpful than just one.

[RuthlessAggression]

Well, if you were to have been in north carolina, at a church recently, he would have told you he believes women shouldn't be in politics. He's a republican

Yeah, a republican told a women, they shouldn't be in politics.

[Anonymous]

Well non thiests aren't my type. But yeah a good woman keeps the man's belly full and his balls empty. To put it simply.