I'm in my 30's and still childless. However, I had tumor (luckily benign) growing behind my stomach wall and it was causing me to have anemia. There was a point iron supplements stopped working and I had to given blood transfusion. It took 4-5 years to figure out where it was coming from and it had to be corrected by surgery.
If I had gotten found a stable relationship, gotten pregnant and given birth between ages 27-30 (while still with the tumor causing internal bleeding), I would've likely developed hemorrhage and suffered either severe demages or die. While I might have given birth to a healthy child, the cost would've been my life. Then no one would've found out what happened to me, why nor realize it was something that could be solved.
Do some things happen for a reason?
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I'm glad to hear that you had surgery and everything went well. Your story proves that everything happens for a reason. I also believe in that. We might don't know the reason when it happens but we might found out later.
So God saved you by keeping you childless? but why he give you tumor in the first place?
No, I don't believe in a fictious god. I think it was pure luck that I'm alive due to not being in the dating world for a long while and having a difficult time finding a marriage-minded man.
I think I've developed that tumor because I used to overeat long ago, inflammating my stomach over the years.
Yea I also think that it was luck, now you need luck with finding marriage-minded man.
https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age
Yes, I am a firm believer in that.
I find it shocking that it would've been fatal for me if I had given birth in my mid-late 20's and be buried without anyone ever knowing why.
Wow, that’s heavy.
yeah and now I'm healthy, stronger than ever but my eggs have obviously dropped. Oh well.
Being healthy is very important.