What would you think if a man has dated nothing but baddies?

[Oliverlogan263]

What would you assume about this man?

... and he always ends the relationship.

Let's say he's perfect on paper.

tall, educated, handsome, fit. no kids, no baggage, no crazy exes.

got his life together and is saying all the right things. but when you take a look at his dating history, he's had 4 relationships (over a year) with women that were all fine asl. professional women with something going for themselves and all of them baddies in every sense of the word

but he ended it every time. the reasons are always vague, he doesn't really want to talk about it. when pressed he says something like "we were in different stages in life" or "we wanted different things"

he wasn't cheating, you confirmed that.

what are you thinking?

he's scared of commitment

elbows too pointy (unrealistic expectations, looking for a unicorn)

gay gay gay

he's a fuxkboy

nothing wrong with him!

other (please explain)

[DizzyDesii]

I used to have a bad habit of dating 2-3-4-5 different dudes a year lmao. And yea if we were in different stages in life, that is why it ended. I can’t be mad at him for doing something similar. But i also wouldn't be so sure that we’d last either. Just have to try. I like taking risks. One thing i noticed is that some people aren't afraid of commitment but they are afraid of labels. Sometimes labels make me feel trapped but without the label, i’m just as loyal. Its hard to explain

[wiltingrosepetal]

Looks like he's hot and knows he's hot, so he dates around 🤷‍♀️ his genetics and life choices have opened up doors, so now he's a fuckboy

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, you might be right. If the dude is as perfect looking and put together as you say, it really does sound like he knows he's got it going on in the looks department. And when you've got all these smokin' chicks lining up to date you, I could see how it would be easy to turn into a fuccboi.

No doubt he works hard on his body and career and all that. But when you add being tall and handsome on top of it, you've pretty much won the genetic lottery. And let's be real - if I was blessed with that kind of luck with ladies, I can't say I wouldn't take advantage a little too!

It's probably a boost to the ego every time a new baddie starts falling for him. So I can imagine he gets bored easily and isn't looking for much substance. As long as he keeps pulling in the baddest babes, why commit to just one, you know? Fuc it, live it up while you're young and hot!

At the end of the day, he's not hurting anyone I guess. But yeah, dating nothing but total smokes while never staying with any of them long-term definitely signals dude has some fuccboi tendencies. Can't blame him with options like that though, amirite?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Yeah, it's understandable why he'd take advantage of the eager dating pool lol

[RebelinSteel]

What the fuck is a baddie

thats like something a 10 yr old uses

[Oliverlogan263]

a "baddie" just means like a super hot girl, you know? Like she's gotta have a banging body, pretty face, do her hair and makeup on point - basically looks really fine.

A baddie seems like more of an image or type than anything - like she wears all the trendy clothes and is super fit from always taking booty pics at the gym. Dudes like that dude probably go for "baddies" cause it makes them look cool on Instagram or whatever.

[RebelinSteel]

Nah I tend to use English.
Is she super hot or really fine, you can’t have both. If I tell one girl she’s really fine but her mate is super hot…
She seems a tad pathetic tbh always taking booty pics at the gym.
Yeah those types can stick together if they only go for superficial looks, on the whole both the guys and girls doing that are pathetic.

[Nikki1989]

A baddie to you might be a goodie to someone else, so that makes this post rather redundant.

[laly520]

he has a type ig

n its concerning a bit

[Dongie]

Scared of commitment

[Anonymous]

he's a fuxkboy

[slatyb]

What makes a woman a "baddie" ?

[NathanDavis]

what on earth is a "baddie"

[wiltingrosepetal]

A sexy woman, basically

[NathanDavis]

@wiltingrosepetal well... all my exes were sexy

and a lot of people are just attractive like that, I don't see why that's a big deal...

or what's to think about it... lol

[wiltingrosepetal]

Aight well, to explain in more detail, a baddie is a sexy, modern women. She's curvy, wealthy, independent, and is more likely to do all the work in bed than be submissive. She uses her sexuality in how she dresses / acts, while being very intelligent in turn. Type to run a business, love danger, and not run away when given a challenge.

So yeah, some guys prefer a sexy, yet shy and sweet woman, and others want a baddie

[NathanDavis]

@wiltingrosepetal well... all my exes do happen to be professionals at their careers, and they do have their own practice or businesses too, so yes, they are independent and very confident, and they're smart as well... basically, they are very well centered and stablished adults, lol

they don't "use their sexuality" but yes, they will look sexy in anything they wear, because they just are, in bed... well, let's just say a lioness for the lion, which is not always submissive, they do measure to the energy in many ways

thing is... with me, they were very much a lioness but also like a kitten at times, and all would depend in the moods, they were sexy, they were strong, assertive, but also kind, and sweet, and considerate and definitely willing to please, so to me... they were very balanced people and versatile, as much I consider myself to be that, as a man