I saw a very handsome guy today, I wanted to give my number - should I?

[Shannon18]

He was a hit with my mom, she called me downstairs to see how handsome he is. I just figured yeah right mom bet he is a minger. He was gorgeous I was so blushing and he seemed very laid back and a bit shy. He was the gas man just doing his job. But my oh my he was a very handsome looking guy, I was so nervous sitting on my sofa, whilst he spoke to my mother. Wish I'd gave him my number but just didn't want to seem desperate lol. I'm thinking I should learn to take initiative nothing to lose, just have to be prepared for rejection as it happens right? :) my mom has his number on her mobile and the gas slip so his name will be on it. Do you think that if I call it I should say to him want to hangout sometime, if your not taken already that is ha ha :/ awkward lol. Can't get him off my mind wow! My ex was nothing compared to him.

[CrystalMinds]

That is a bit awkward to do so right away. Maybe you can ask your mom if something is up with the gasthing and she needs to contact the firm you could go or call? Or next time he comes along just say something to him.

But on the other side, what do you have to lose? If he says no, he says no, end of story.

If he says yes, well...

I'd say go for it!

[Shannon18]

Yeah I figured to do so straight away might make me seem a bit weird and stalkersih lol. Don't want to come across that way. Arh yeah good idea, I could call up. Don't know where the firm is to go there. I guess if he comes here again then I should say something. Even though I'm slightly shy and intimidated by his presence. He doesn't even seem to know how great he looks. I like non cocky guys that are so modest :). Yeah on the other hand what do I have to lose :/jus hope he's single lol. If not

[CrystalMinds]

If not, then he'll tell you (or at least he should). Or what you could do is you could call him up and thank him (again) for the good work he did the other day, he'll appreciate it and maybe you could tell him you didn't catch his name, so he'll tell you. He might ask yours, bla bla bla, and start talking :p

[Shannon18]

Very true. My mom did say he was really polite as he went to the car to get extra paperwork for her cus she didn't really understand about the gas problem. So I could say thanks cus of that. Yeah will try get a convo from that and see where it goes. Oh gosh so nerve racking :( lol. He seems so lovely though :) so could be worth the risk.

[CrystalMinds]

If you don't do it, you'll keep hitting yourself over the head with it. You'll keep thinking: ah darn, what if he was a catch? what if something would've happened if I called?...

Just call him to say thanks.

[Shannon18]

I know I'm kicking myself right now as I feel like a beg if I was to call him. Lol. I have this feeling he is single and a bit shy. When he saw me he put his head down and seemed really reserved. Really would like to see him again, you never know what could progress :). Arh you know when you think you don't know your type. When I saw him he was my type, its so strange but he really is my dream guy. He could have nice personality too lol. Maybe I'm jumping the gun.

[CrystalMinds]

If you don't do it, you'll keep thinking about what could've been and the thing is, you'll never know if you don't do anything about it!

[Shannon18]

Yeah that's true lol. My mom just said to me that she has his number. She keeps encouraging me and she said be forward and call him and say you thought he is cute and stuff... His number is in her phone arh that's scary even thinking about tht lol.

[Shannon18]

Hey I have the guys number I'm so scared though :( arghhhh :/

[CrystalMinds]

Go call him! :p

[Shannon18]

Hey I called. And now we are texting :) x

[CrystalMinds]

Well done! :D

[DutchAtheist]

I can't help but think of Ross' awkward gas-talk trying to hit on the Pizza delivery girl.

[Shannon18]

I called him and now we are texting but yeah lol I know what you mean.

[red324]

The meter reader? lol

[Shannon18]

Lol yeah but I don't fancy everyone I meet lol. He was just a real handsome guy.

[red324]

it's a little late now I think but if you want something you have go after it and don't think too much about it. Maybe you would have looked a little over eager but he doesn't know you and you don't know him so if it doesn't workout who cares what he thinks.

[Shannon18]

I went after it and I called him now we are texting :)

[glitterberryalisa]

YOLO

[Shannon18]

Indeed :) I called him and now we are texting so its a start x

[glitterberryalisa]

yay! :D see? it worked!

[Shannon18]

Yeahh :)