My boyfriend said I'm not the hottest girl he's been with, should this bother me? (Page 2)
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yeah, nothing bad ever came from putting a guy on the spot, you just have to deal with it.
Be thankful that he was honest. Don't ask questions you can't handle answers to.
He's just being honest. What's wrong with being honest?
You shouldn't have asked, and he shouldn't have answered.
Questions like that are traps and answering is ALWAYS dangerous.
He shouldn't have said that and you really shouldn't have asked that cause it doesn't really matter.
How old are you? You need to see the important things in life and also your boyfriend is a dummy with a dumb mouth
tell him the same - that he is not the hottest guy you dated
Just accept the truth..it doesn't mean he's going to leave you. what important is that he loves you and no one can compare with that.
Isn't honesty what women are always asking for?
Congrats! You made the Top 5!
Thank you, that's a different way of looking at it.
The whole thing depends on if you are ranked #4 out of 4 - or you are ranked #4 out of 400.
Actually, after thinking about it, I guess what matters are his feelings towards you.
Example: Suppose that I've been with Yvonne Strahovski, Olivia Wilde, Alana De La Garza, and that I'm currently with Natalie Portman (this is in Pretend-ville). And imagine Natalie asks me if she's the hottest I've ever been with, and I say she's the fourth hottest. Does that make Natalie any less hot? No! She's at least a 9.75 out of 10!
Suppose instead that I've been with Sandra Bernhard, Rosie O?Donnell, and Camilla Parker-Bowles and that I'm currently with former Attorney General Janet Reno. What if Janet asks me if she's the hottest I've ever been with and I say yes, she is?
See what I mean? Your ranking doesn't matter. What matters is how he feels about you and only you. Not the other women. He could find you fourth hottest - and still find you 'supermodel hot'.
I see what you mean. But I know he doesn't consider me to be supermodel hot, the girl who's number one is. But he said if he includes personality then I would be hottest.
"But I know he doesn't consider me to be supermodel hot..."
How do you know? Did he say that?
He said its not fair to me, to be compared, because he's been with a girl that looked like she walked out of a magazine.
Wow . Id leave I don't like being settled for...