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Will I Ever Change Or Be Trained In A Relationship?

will i ever change or be trained in a relationship?

Before you say I will never change or be trained in a relations ship lets look at the facts.


You see someone you like or attracted to . Whats the first thing you usually do see if your presentable or smell good (first impressions right). Did you make any changes? If so then you made your first change for the other person.


Now lets look at the first few dates:
You know your going out with your most recent love, so you take extra time cleaning yourself up and dressing nice to try to impress that special someone that just came in your life. Well you are out with them you get to know them better what they like and dislike. You make a special mental note of these things so you can help win that person over in the long run.


You see when you know what the other persons likes and dislikes, you are your changing or being trained to do these things to make the other person happy. It could be something as small as hand written note that say I loved last night and we need to do it again soon. To bringing up the persons favorite sports team. Or even a favorite place to eat so you taken them there on the next date.


Thats all training or changes you are making do to the other person.

Will I Ever Change Or Be Trained In A Relationship?


Now let look at some other changes or training that happens during a relationship. Lets say the two of you are planning on a casual outing and one of you make the plan to go to a park for a long romantic walk so you can talk and get to know each other better. What you didn't know was the other person bad allergies so they sneezed the whole time. You made another mental note no more dates in the park.


Or as a female lets say your a little bit of a tomboy at heart and love classic cars. You think all guys love them so you find a car show to go to on a date. What you didn't know was he has no interest in old cars because they are just transportation. So you know make a mental note no car talk.


You see you both changed your life style for the other person. It happens all the time small changes make big changes with out even knowing it.


Now lets say your moving in together or getting married. This is when the most changes or training takes place because it isn't just you anymore there is someone else there all the time. You might be a clean freak well the other is a little messy. Or they like to stay home and relax well you like to go out and see the world every weekend. Because you both love each other you find a happy medium to the different life styles and you start doing the things the other person likes to do. Example of this is the person with allergies might take a pill so you can enjoy nature, or he might start to appreciate the designs and style of the old cars.
We all make changes or are trained to do things if we want to or not ,when we see it make the person we love happy.

Will I Ever Change Or Be Trained In A Relationship?
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