I read yours a while back and I loved it. :) I think everyone goes through that short of thing with society. Society is nosy. They like to tell you what's right or wrong because they are judgmental.
I just don't read youtube comments. They put all the bitter hate of this site to shame. The worst things fathomable have been said in the youtube comments section.
Yeah I see this in a lot of videos. They talk about something in the video and then all people could say in the comments are "herp derp why are they even with that person they're so much hotter." It's a wonder why those people themselves are usually single...
I mean, I thought I was an average looking guy. But if that guy is average looking then I must be a stud. To me he is below average and somewhat overweight, but I still agree with the Take.
@JRICHARDS1996, lmfaooo u have already been trolled on this. This guy is equal to you face wise, both of which are good enough genetically. His frame>>>>yours and I have a feeling ur no more than 5'6 or 5'7 while he is 6' or so 😅😅
Because women that look like that turn their nose (usually) at every day guys. That is why the majority of guys will not bother to approach them unless they themselves are one of the "pretty people". If I was a bar person, which I am not, I would choose the 2nd or 3rd best looking at the table. She will be the most normal of the group and still hot.
TBH, I have watched Snipers (Lia) videos, and know who Sausage (Evan) is. I get personality, ok maybe the guy is really nice and sweet, but Evan has actually broken up with her so many times and has treated her like shit on occasion (she has told everyone about it on her channel). So, I have no idea as to why she would stay with him, if even the personality isn't there.
Learn from this. Treat a girl like your more valuable than her and she'll keep running back and wanting to be with you. It's ingrained in the female brain. Never pander up and act subservant to women.
I think all pessimistic judgments regarding looks and material things are somewhat egotistical (did I spell it right? Lol) and continue to contribute to dating's bad reputation pool. How are we going to attain peace if we're constantly bringing each other down?
Whatever the reason, it's their relationship and if they are happy with it, that's all that counts. Besides, it's not always looks that are most important. I remember when I got to know my most recent boyfriend I wasn't attracted to him physically first, but we started having long talks and the more I got to know about him the more I liked him and eventually the physical attraction came with it as well, and if it hadn't ended because of his fear of commitment and insecurities I wouldn't have given him up for anyone, no matter how good looking they would have been.
lol You tell them girl ;), Great mytake. :) Totally agree with everything your saying. :) I wish guys would understand that not every girl is shallow & we do recognize everyday guys. A lot of guys I've liked have been everyday guys with great personalities and were genuine, which is why I liked them. :)
Oh, she has tones of makeup there too. Haha I tried to find her pic without makeup, but I see that pic doesn't exist online. I think we both know why. xD
*looks at her playlist and see just shooters and gta...* Doesn't seem like she's into different genres and into 2 of the dumbest games.
Though I agree it's annoying when people do that. Also in the very first picture where he's wearing a blue shirt he doesn't look bad in the face at all.
He actually looks cute in the first picture whereas she looks fairly average once you account for the make up and angles, etc. I'm guessing they started dating before he got fat and now she loves him and doesn't really notice.
I've been fucked with a bit because they think I can do better than my boyfriend. I personally love how he looks AND his personality. It pisses me off when people do that- to me or others.
1. They broke-up tho. He cheated on her, twice. So, how's his personality then? 2. The real thing is 'connection'. Some find connection through looks, some find connection through personality. 3. Leagues don't exist 4. It's not shallow to like someone solely for looks (or personality) 5. (Just I said there) Looks definitely 'help' (not a deciding factor 'always') in first impressions which is crucial, personality 'helps' (not a deciding factor 'always') in keeping the person. People may cheat even tho you have a golden personality, people may not listen to your pickup line even tho you're dashing.
1. They were together when this was written. 2. It's called chemistry and Chemistry is usually found within personality. 3. Evidence? 4. Yes it is. It would hurt if that happened to you right? It's even more shallow to reject them over something they can change. 5. Looks are what draw most people in but personality is what keeps them there. I may be biased because I believe I am demisexual which means I am much more attracted to personality.
Guess you didn't like this one. Oh well. It was a rant because I am so sick of people judging based upon appearance.
1. My point was, his doesn't have a great personality. 2. No. I didn't mean 'chemistry'. I literally meant 'connection'. One can get a good 'connection' from looks as well as personality. 3. I am the evidence. 4. --- 5. Everyone is different. Obviously, there would be exceptions.
They broke-up tho. He cheated on her, twice. So, how's his personality then? wtf i just read? Seriously how could this guy be so stupid and cheat on that girl?
Where is the hot girl? The guy looked decent before he got fat. The girl is just average. Seen plenty better looking women without this much makeup on in my life.
She's gorgeous, she's got an amazing body... These people who are say she's not attractive when they're not even close to being in the same league and will never get with a girl even close to attractive as her are a joke... lol... like seriously, lets see some of the girls you've been with before and we can compare them
Believe it or not EVERYONE including women care about looks to A CERTAIN DEGREE. People like one guy below that says women don't care about looks is a load of bull. The thing is most likely the girl thought right away that this guy was good looking as soon as she saw him. It is rare when an attractive woman gets involved with a guy like that just because of his personality. Most of the time she thought he was good looking right away, he has money, he is known, etc. In this case I notice you posted he doesn't have much money, etc. so 99% percent chance he was just her type when it came to looks.
Don't know about those two, but usually if a guy worships a girl enough, cat-calls, hits on and flirts with her enough, she will ultimately date the guy. No matter how ugly, broke, dumb, or otherwise pathetic he is. Doesn't matter, as long as she feels desired.
For the first pic he got the hot girl because it's actual him who plays those pre-recorded video games of that wolf girl. She then pretends to play them and because she is a girl and pretty guy's eat up all her shit and she gets free youtube money. So the relationship is a good partnership right there.
If she leaves him then he can straight up out her and she loses the gravey train.
He is not ugly. And he seems like a chill funny dude. I would not want a six pack jerk, prefer a smart chill funny dude who has the same frequency with me. Plus she is not that beautiful either. She is an average girl...
she's not ugly he's just kind of fat. she probably finds him attractive. a lot of guys incorrectly assume that pretty girls only are attracted to pretty boy model types when thats not always true. i bet if she thought this guy was physically unattractive she would not be with him. she has the choice of dating whoever she wants, she likes Something about this guys looks
also shout out to @the_rake for mentioning the fact that women like a guy having a dominant masculine personality. i totally agree that is sexy as fuck. i would take a dominant masculine guy who was just average looking over a really sexy looking guy who was more passive. Dominance > Looks, at least for me anyway
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I did this topic a while back and shared personal experiences. It really is frustrating in general because the couple isn't the problem, but society is.
I read yours a while back and I loved it. :) I think everyone goes through that short of thing with society. Society is nosy. They like to tell you what's right or wrong because they are judgmental.
Thanks gurl <3. I love your mytakes too , you are doing some good work.
Thank you so much 😄 I have some more in store
I just don't read youtube comments. They put all the bitter hate of this site to shame. The worst things fathomable have been said in the youtube comments section.
Yeah I see this in a lot of videos. They talk about something in the video and then all people could say in the comments are "herp derp why are they even with that person they're so much hotter." It's a wonder why those people themselves are usually single...
And honestly they look like a cute couple.
YouTube comments are cancer lol.
He's an average looking guy, people are acting like he is super ugly or whatever.
I mean, I thought I was an average looking guy. But if that guy is average looking then I must be a stud. To me he is below average and somewhat overweight, but I still agree with the Take.
I know he isn't even bad looking
its for asker
@JRICHARDS1996, lmfaooo u have already been trolled on this. This guy is equal to you face wise, both of which are good enough genetically. His frame>>>>yours and I have a feeling ur no more than 5'6 or 5'7 while he is 6' or so 😅😅
I think they'd be in the same league if she took off her make up and he shaved his neck beard and lost a bit of weight.
Confidence is what's attractive though.
Yep. I guess he has it. :)
Because women that look like that turn their nose (usually) at every day guys. That is why the majority of guys will not bother to approach them unless they themselves are one of the "pretty people". If I was a bar person, which I am not, I would choose the 2nd or 3rd best looking at the table. She will be the most normal of the group and still hot.
Yeah :(
TBH, I have watched Snipers (Lia) videos, and know who Sausage (Evan) is. I get personality, ok maybe the guy is really nice and sweet, but Evan has actually broken up with her so many times and has treated her like shit on occasion (she has told everyone about it on her channel). So, I have no idea as to why she would stay with him, if even the personality isn't there.
Learn from this. Treat a girl like your more valuable than her and she'll keep running back and wanting to be with you. It's ingrained in the female brain. Never pander up and act subservant to women.
Yeah they broke up recently but they got back together a few weeks ago.
"Yeah they broke up recently but they got back together a few weeks ago."
Seems like a very unstable relationship.
I think all pessimistic judgments regarding looks and material things are somewhat egotistical (did I spell it right? Lol) and continue to contribute to dating's bad reputation pool. How are we going to attain peace if we're constantly bringing each other down?
(You did lol)
And you have a point and it's too soon to tell.
Whatever the reason, it's their relationship and if they are happy with it, that's all that counts. Besides, it's not always looks that are most important. I remember when I got to know my most recent boyfriend I wasn't attracted to him physically first, but we started having long talks and the more I got to know about him the more I liked him and eventually the physical attraction came with it as well, and if it hadn't ended because of his fear of commitment and insecurities I wouldn't have given him up for anyone, no matter how good looking they would have been.
Totally agree
lol You tell them girl ;), Great mytake. :) Totally agree with everything your saying. :) I wish guys would understand that not every girl is shallow & we do recognize everyday guys. A lot of guys I've liked have been everyday guys with great personalities and were genuine, which is why I liked them. :)
Thank you! :)
Your welcome. :)
Wow... people can be such jackasses...
Not even surprised.
I think he's cute and she's also cute. She has a great body and an average face and he has a great face and an average body...
Haha that's a good way to put it.
I think her face is cute. That may just be me though lol
Well, tastes shouldn't be discussed, but I can see that underneath all that makeup she's average at best...
Here she is without makeup. I guess you are right.
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Oh, she has tones of makeup there too. Haha I tried to find her pic without makeup, but I see that pic doesn't exist online. I think we both know why. xD
XD I guess not
Yep exactly
*looks at her playlist and see just shooters and gta...* Doesn't seem like she's into different genres and into 2 of the dumbest games.
Though I agree it's annoying when people do that. Also in the very first picture where he's wearing a blue shirt he doesn't look bad in the face at all.
Exactly I guess the teenagers that watch her are jealous. :P
I think it's just because he's over weight and that's what make people think he's ugly next to her, face wise it looks good.
He actually looks cute in the first picture whereas she looks fairly average once you account for the make up and angles, etc. I'm guessing they started dating before he got fat and now she loves him and doesn't really notice.
Yeah. Actually she met him over the Internet when she wasn't as big. They've been together for a long time.
THANK YOU.
I've been fucked with a bit because they think I can do better than my boyfriend. I personally love how he looks AND his personality. It pisses me off when people do that- to me or others.
It's not their place to judge YOUR relationship. :)
1. They broke-up tho. He cheated on her, twice. So, how's his personality then?
2. The real thing is 'connection'. Some find connection through looks, some find connection through personality.
3. Leagues don't exist
4. It's not shallow to like someone solely for looks (or personality)
5. (Just I said there) Looks definitely 'help' (not a deciding factor 'always') in first impressions which is crucial, personality 'helps' (not a deciding factor 'always') in keeping the person. People may cheat even tho you have a golden personality, people may not listen to your pickup line even tho you're dashing.
That's what I have to say.
1. They were together when this was written.
2. It's called chemistry and Chemistry is usually found within personality.
3. Evidence?
4. Yes it is. It would hurt if that happened to you right? It's even more shallow to reject them over something they can change.
5. Looks are what draw most people in but personality is what keeps them there. I may be biased because I believe I am demisexual which means I am much more attracted to personality.
Guess you didn't like this one. Oh well. It was a rant because I am so sick of people judging based upon appearance.
1. My point was, his doesn't have a great personality.
2. No. I didn't mean 'chemistry'. I literally meant 'connection'. One can get a good 'connection' from looks as well as personality.
3. I am the evidence.
4. ---
5. Everyone is different. Obviously, there would be exceptions.
NO. I liked it. Why do you think I didn't?
They broke-up tho. He cheated on her, twice. So, how's his personality then? wtf i just read? Seriously how could this guy be so stupid and cheat on that girl?
Where is the hot girl?
The guy looked decent before he got fat.
The girl is just average. Seen plenty better looking women without this much makeup on in my life.
Everyone thinks she's hot. I don't know why.
Don't find her that attractive.
She's gorgeous, she's got an amazing body... These people who are say she's not attractive when they're not even close to being in the same league and will never get with a girl even close to attractive as her are a joke... lol... like seriously, lets see some of the girls you've been with before and we can compare them
Believe it or not EVERYONE including women care about looks to A CERTAIN DEGREE. People like one guy below that says women don't care about looks is a load of bull. The thing is most likely the girl thought right away that this guy was good looking as soon as she saw him. It is rare when an attractive woman gets involved with a guy like that just because of his personality. Most of the time she thought he was good looking right away, he has money, he is known, etc. In this case I notice you posted he doesn't have much money, etc. so 99% percent chance he was just her type when it came to looks.
That's what I said tho in the take.
Don't know about those two, but usually if a guy worships a girl enough, cat-calls, hits on and flirts with her enough, she will ultimately date the guy. No matter how ugly, broke, dumb, or otherwise pathetic he is. Doesn't matter, as long as she feels desired.
Solid point you make.
That is so true. Women place their value on how guys see them.
For the first pic he got the hot girl because it's actual him who plays those pre-recorded video games of that wolf girl. She then pretends to play them and because she is a girl and pretty guy's eat up all her shit and she gets free youtube money. So the relationship is a good partnership right there.
If she leaves him then he can straight up out her and she loses the gravey train.
Yeah I heard of those rumors too
He is not ugly. And he seems like a chill funny dude. I would not want a six pack jerk, prefer a smart chill funny dude who has the same frequency with me. Plus she is not that beautiful either. She is an average girl...
Me too. But all the twelve year olds on her videos think she's the hottest girl on the planet.
she's not ugly he's just kind of fat. she probably finds him attractive. a lot of guys incorrectly assume that pretty girls only are attracted to pretty boy model types when thats not always true. i bet if she thought this guy was physically unattractive she would not be with him. she has the choice of dating whoever she wants, she likes Something about this guys looks
also shout out to @the_rake for mentioning the fact that women like a guy having a dominant masculine personality. i totally agree that is sexy as fuck. i would take a dominant masculine guy who was just average looking over a really sexy looking guy who was more passive. Dominance > Looks, at least for me anyway