@vvn604 What would be cool would be to be filthy rich and literally own nothing. Just travel. No home. Here. Abroad. Long time stays. Short stays. Just go where your imagination takes you.
why? because, believe it or not, not all women are after money.
I'm not with my boyfriend for money. Not at all. And, while some women may do this... many other women value other more important things about men, other than how much money they have.
... listen, I am not going to say that there are not some nasty women out there, such as there are some nasty men.
You probably met or have seen around you the wrong kind of women...
Just hope you remind yourself that there are always good hearted humans and mean hearted humans, despite the gender they belong to. This is all I wanted to say. Because generalization is in itself a mistake.
after reading the whole take... I agree with the keeping up the college education part because that's important on a personal level.
sorry when i read the title i misunderstood. I was too trigger happy. Hope you can understand. I see your take has some valid points.
but by no means are all women just after money. when i read the title i thought that was all the take was about. but it also talks about self-growth and focusing on one self rather than just chasing skirts, which is of course a good thing.
hope you can forgive me bein too trigger happy? :D
You are forgiven :) But that's also because you cannot downvote my mytake. But I am still bothered by the idea, that (some) women pursue only men with degrees. I can tolerate if a woman happens to join a man while he is ambitious and on his journey upwards BUT NOT WHEN HE IS ALREADY SELF MADE. If you get what I mean.
I hate gold diggers! I cannot tell you how much gold diggers disgust me!
So yes, this is what I have been trying to say in some ways but I have overdone it. Focusing on self-development rather than trying to make the impossible happen. In no way I meant to promote objectifying women but I have had sour experiences and wanted to say to enjoy the show when the women, who have ignored you in the past would suddenly be interested in you very much *after* reaching success. Yes, I have overdone it. Should have been easier with that.
I only know about myself, but of course I'm not as presumptuous as to think I am the only woman with some sense of decency in treating a man out there. This is why I say not all women are like this.
and it may sound silly, but maybe it's because of your surroundings or the places you usually go on yur day to day life. or the kind of women you are attracted to, I don't know. But for some reason you have had "bad luck" in finding the good ones.
Hm. I see :/ That is unfortunate for me. So does that mean that because I have simply had bad experiences with the women I happen to have associated myself with and had just such terrible experiences? That there are more and other experiences with women than just what I have gone through?
This is something I should think about more deeper and reevaluate myself a little.
Yes, just because something bad happens to you, doesn't mean it will keep on happening.
You will be doing yourself a diservice if you think you are doomed to have bad luck. Because it doesn't work that way. But if you think that way, then you will not be influencing your life in a positive way, that's for sure.
So, in my opinion, you have to start by reevaluating your perspective on things...
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No thanks. Id rather have a girl that gets wet stroking my dick instead of my wallet.
Oh wait. I have. Oh well.
You earn the money
You get the woman
The woman files for divorce
You are left with half or less than you earned
Welcome to the 21st century!
I would hate to be filthy rich and single because I would never know who married me for my money.
I wouldn't want to be filthy rich either because then my happiness would be gone.
@vvn604 What would be cool would be to be filthy rich and literally own nothing. Just travel. No home. Here. Abroad. Long time stays. Short stays. Just go where your imagination takes you.
Hotels only.
That does sound like an adventure. For me, I like staying at home because home is where my heart is.
This is what I've been saying all along. But I'd rather have the money than a girlfriend.
Ok this could be helpful but I simply just don't have the confidence
just came here to downvote, literally...
so... here's my symbolic downvote... anyone else thinking stupid MyTakes should have an option to downvote them and not just like them? ;P
Why?
why? because, believe it or not, not all women are after money.
I'm not with my boyfriend for money. Not at all. And, while some women may do this... many other women value other more important things about men, other than how much money they have.
That's all.
I have just noticed this wave of men and women like you disagreeing with me.
I can't believe it. Where have I been wrong then?
... listen, I am not going to say that there are not some nasty women out there, such as there are some nasty men.
You probably met or have seen around you the wrong kind of women...
Just hope you remind yourself that there are always good hearted humans and mean hearted humans, despite the gender they belong to. This is all I wanted to say. Because generalization is in itself a mistake.
after reading the whole take... I agree with the keeping up the college education part because that's important on a personal level.
sorry when i read the title i misunderstood. I was too trigger happy. Hope you can understand. I see your take has some valid points.
but by no means are all women just after money. when i read the title i thought that was all the take was about. but it also talks about self-growth and focusing on one self rather than just chasing skirts, which is of course a good thing.
hope you can forgive me bein too trigger happy? :D
You are forgiven :)
But that's also because you cannot downvote my mytake.
But I am still bothered by the idea, that (some) women pursue only men with degrees. I can tolerate if a woman happens to join a man while he is ambitious and on his journey upwards BUT NOT WHEN HE IS ALREADY SELF MADE. If you get what I mean.
I hate gold diggers! I cannot tell you how much gold diggers disgust me!
So yes, this is what I have been trying to say in some ways but I have overdone it. Focusing on self-development rather than trying to make the impossible happen.
In no way I meant to promote objectifying women but I have had sour experiences and wanted to say to enjoy the show when the women, who have ignored you in the past would suddenly be interested in you very much *after* reaching success.
Yes, I have overdone it. Should have been easier with that.
yes, in a way... it's about the approach yes
because some women take more interest in who the man is and stick with him through his journey, like you said.
How come i have not met a decent woman yet? I am confused. You make it sound like there are mostly decent women out there. Or at least where you are?
I only know about myself, but of course I'm not as presumptuous as to think I am the only woman with some sense of decency in treating a man out there. This is why I say not all women are like this.
and it may sound silly, but maybe it's because of your surroundings or the places you usually go on yur day to day life. or the kind of women you are attracted to, I don't know. But for some reason you have had "bad luck" in finding the good ones.
Hm. I see :/
That is unfortunate for me.
So does that mean that because I have simply had bad experiences with the women I happen to have associated myself with and had just such terrible experiences? That there are more and other experiences with women than just what I have gone through?
This is something I should think about more deeper and reevaluate myself a little.
Lol!
Yes, just because something bad happens to you, doesn't mean it will keep on happening.
You will be doing yourself a diservice if you think you are doomed to have bad luck. Because it doesn't work that way. But if you think that way, then you will not be influencing your life in a positive way, that's for sure.
So, in my opinion, you have to start by reevaluating your perspective on things...
What is the first step? I cannot stop thinking about women wanting out money after all of this. But i want to stop it. I really do :(
Okay, this is kind of stupid, that i just asked a question i have been giving an answer to. I don't want to be like this anymore.
You just need to try and meet different kinds of women. Maybe search in the places you usually dont go to.
I see. :/
i totally agree about money.
you will find girlfriend without money if she finds you by herself.
Women are worthless takers who contribute nothing to society except for claiming victimhood while they leach off everyone
Nicely done