Long-distance relationships don’t have to be dull and boring . The ultimate goal is to keep each other engaged with long-distance communication to prevent the relationship from going stale. There's multiple methods of communication. So take full advantage on what's available to you both. Try not to stick to just one method of communication,and be creative.
1.) Have Online Dates
Shared experiences are what you need to stay close. Arrange a date night via Skype (or similar)Watch a movie simultaneously , as well as arranging a dinner date together . These shared experiences will give you memories to cherish ,and will help close the distance
2.) Play Games Online
Do something more active ,fun and engaging together by playing online games with each other.There's an unlimited amount of multi-player games online that you can both enjoy together.
3.) Send Token Gifts
These don't need to be lavish gifts .Just a token of your affection. Be spontaneous by sending a gift out of the blue,so it'll be a nice surprise for your partner when they receive it.
You could always arrange to send a gift to each other simultaneously ,then arrange a time and date you can open your gifts together via webcam . That way you'll be able see each other's facial expressions as you open your gifts .
Or , you could be creative and send a DIY Gift . For example; both of you could paint on a pillowcase by writing a heartfelt message and put your handprint on it . Post your designer pillowcases to each other ,so every time you go to bed, it will remind you of one another
You could also bake some homemade cookies then send them to your partner
4.) Send Letters via Post
Go old school at times and write a letter - send it by post . Letters are more personal ,and it can make a person smile even before it's opened. Pen down your deepest feelings and thoughts . Touching words can reach you partners heart ,and mean so much to him/her . Tell them how much you love them , and how much you miss their presence,and how you long to meet up in person.
5.) Cook A Meal Together
Choose a meal you want to cook together ,( if you live in different countries try cooking a traditional meal from each others culture or country ) and video chat while you are both cooking the meal . Also, you could arrange to meet up at a coffee shop and have a drink together via video
6.) Send Photos And Videos Of Your Daily Activities.
Send selfies of your daily routine or places that you go -even mundane activities. S/he'll feel closer to you while you're apart . You'll be able to imagine how each other's day is going when you are both busy
7.) Shop Online Together
There's a few very good websites that allows you to shop with a friend online in real time using built-in Skype-style video calling. Make sure you have the shop in both countries. Browse their collections or products online together. Swap ideas and discuss what you do and don’t like. Some stores will even let you model your choices on an online avatar of yourself
8.) Be Each Other's Tourist Guide.
Bridge the distance between you both by virtually exploring each other's cities .It allows you to interact and explore the same virtual environment.Take a virtual tour of an art gallery or museum , and other places of interest where you live. Pick out restaurants ,cafe's and places of interest you want to explore together when you meet up in person .
Show your partner around your house by giving them a virtual tour of your own home. They may be used to seeing you at your bed or desk/table when you talk, but they won't be able to get a proper feel for your house without a guided tour. It'll also help him/ her to feel home from home when they do visit
Take your partner virtual shopping with you. When you go grocery shopping or clothes shopping ,show your partner items you want to buy ,ask for their opinions on the items you are considering purchasing . It's fun ,but it will also make your partner feel involved in your life. It's also a good way of getting to know each others likes and dislikes
9.) Fall Asleep Together
Place your own phone /computer down next to you in bed . You can both chat in bed while looking into each other's eyes . Say goodnight and then fall asleep together .This intimacy will make you both feel extra close to one another .
10.) Video Recordings
If you can't talk as much as you'd like to on the phone or webcam due to extreme differences in time zones,then send video messages. Send goodnight and good morning videos to each other ,so when your partner goes to bed or wakes up they can see you and hear your voice . You could create your own homemade audio book by recording a story. Send loving messages to each other via video recordings
11.) Texting
Instant messenger application on your mobile is convenient and great for communicating regularly, but instead of going with generic messages take the time to write something personalized. Try not to always send the same kinds of love texts. Be creative ,by mixing things up and keep your messages fresh,and try to avoid just one word responses .You could also send interesting video links to each other
Send meaningful quality texts sometimes , but also play flirty texting games such as "QuickFire" .There's lots of fun texting games you can both play. Communicate what you miss most about them, or what you look forward to sharing when you are finally reunited.
Master the art of seduction by seducing your partner via text - send a sexy text , or leave a sexy voice message .Send good morning and goodnight picture quote or meme,or even create your own. Also, you could send a sexy good morning selfie.
A relationship should be based on communication - not assumptions ,so if a message is vague and you’re not sure what your partner means,or if the message seems cold and distant , try not to overthink and jump to assumptions. Rather, wait till you are face-to-face via webcam to discuss the issue. It’s a lot better to be 100% sure before jumping to any assumptions or conclusions. Assumptions eventually destroy relationships
12.) Talk On The Phone
Chats on the phone don't always have to be long, and in-depth meaningful conversations . Even a quick call while you're out shopping or heading off to bed or in the shower is enough so you can hear each others voice, and let your partner know you are thinking about them.
Compliment your partner , and let them know how much you want to be with them in person. Talk about your next planned visit.Share short stories about your day,or talk about an event that has happened. Show a genuine interest in their life too by asking questions, but be a good listener as well - actively listen to what they have to say.The conversation doesn't have to be serious all of the time. Have a laugh together
Also, talk sexy to each other and seduce each other over the phone . It'll give you both something to look forward to for the next time you communicate. The anticipation will be exciting for both of you
Be spontaneous,be creative ,have fun and let things happen naturally
Love will travel as far as you let it.It has no limits. Distance just gives you a reason to love harder
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