Since using this app, I continue to see the same basic question which is, "Why did my girlfriend or boyfriend do this or that?" When someone asks this, they are going to get a lot of mixed answers of which none may be correct. The person asking this type of question is going to read through the answers and agree with the one that they want to believe and it's going to continue to affect their relationship.
The only way to get a straight and accurate answer is to sit down and TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. Don't just ask a bunch of people on an app what they think. Go directly to the source of the problem and tackle it head on. Do not attack your partner or insult them. Be nice and civil and ask them why they did a certain thing and tell them how it made you feel. If you have something that is bothering you, it is going to continue to fester inside you until you lash out. If your partner gets mad when you talk to them, DO NOT get angry back. Keep your cool but stand your ground. Do not take it back or say never mind. If your partner is unable to communicate with you, your relationship is going to go nowhere and you are not going to be able to grow. The relationship will continue to stagnate and will inevitably end.
At the same time people need to learn to let minor things go. Some of the things that people worry about are absolutely ridiculous. Don't allow small, unimportant things to ruin your relationship. Think about exactly what you want to say and get across and prepare for a response that you may not want because it is a possibility that is beyond your control. If people want a direct answer, learn to communicate and talk to your partner and it will be much less stressful and you will never have to question why something happened. You will learn from each others responses, it will create a better atmosphere, and will strengthen your relationship overall.
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