I understand your point with the "I don't care" attitude, but I don't think you worded what you described correctly. I think it's more along the lines of trusting him and leaving if you can't. As for cooking and cleaning (feminine tasks), I can do both. I don't enjoy either (mainly because I neither like eating nor cleaning), but I don't need a girl who does both. I need a girl who can do one of them occasionally.
1. Be Loyal 2. Don't Rob Me Money 3. Don't Be a B*tch 4. Don't Be a Crazy B*tch 5. Don't Be a Lying Victim B*tch 6. Don't Be a Narcissist B*tch 7. Don't Be a Drama B*tch 8. Don't Be a Cheating B*tch 9. Don't Be a Manipulating B*tch 10. Don't Be a Divorce R@ping B*tch
You'd probably get more pink upvotes if you made your point without overusing the word "bitch". The contents of what you say are true; only a narcissist would come out defending narcissism. But the wording is getting in the way, I suspect.
Fucking hell. This so refreshing to see real advices about how to treat a guy right. I was getting tired all these "dominate him" or "show him who's the boss" and other crap considering men as dangerous pets to keep on leash. The only thing I'd add, is that you should do efforts for him, but expect him to do the same. Be his equal, the one to complete him, the one giving him what he wants while he'll give you what you want.
You can't just keep someone , the fuck, you could do literally everything "right" and the person could still leave you. There is no guarantee that someone will stay just cause you put on an act, follow "rules" or whatever. Everyone ould leave one day, you just never know
I think this post is spot on. I think a few are more important. I think women who are ungrateful are the worst. Nagging and ungrateful I'd rather drown myself than to be with someone like that ever again.
This is all true but the man will have to want to commit and see you as a woman who adds value in his life. Or else all of this makes no sense if he doesn't see you as a high valued woman he can't afford to lose. In that case, be willing to walk away ladies, and kick him to the curb someone else will appreciate all of this that she mentioned. Great mytake.
The way men function I really don’t like it. They say that we love you our girlfriend wife but when we see other women we just notice them but d way men keep on staring god really bugs me like soemtimes I’ve noticed dey have deir girlfriend or wife right beside dem Nd dey’ll still state notice other girls around like what man don’t u like ur girl whose right dere !
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1) Act your freaking age 2) Don’t be a little you know what 3) Don’t accuse him of things cause of your screwed up past relationships (all guys are not the same so don’t be that girl) 4) If you have kids with your man LET HIM SEE THEM (I don’t like a certain somebody in his family even though that certain somebody helped the mother of his kids THREE TIMES WHEN SHE WAS HOMELESS so he can’t see his own kids) 😐
Did I say anything about anybody hurting me? Let me see... nope I really don’t think so. I said 4 ways on how to keep a man so is there a PROBLEM with that? #4 has to do with my brother and his ignorant ass baby mom for whatever reason doesn’t like my grandma even though my grandma allowed the same girl who was homeless 3 different times to stay in her own home
There's a saying you can make a 4 legged living being stay but not the 2 legged one. You can't make a man stay. You can put all your efforts. Ultimately it's his decision.
These all ain't work if you are over 35s. Many men on this site are shallow idiots
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By the way you just want us to be female cucks. Like we should not get jealous and let him be a whore or shit. Nah i dont want a male cunt as a boyfriend. He should not make me jealous in the first place
Well i can agree that a lot of men are sex craved, idiotic, annoying bastards but not all of us are thankfully so i do hope u find someone who isn't if you haven't already
Some people go too far one way or the other. Either they become doormats or they become pains in the asses to be with, and neither of those is good. It's all about balance. Be nice but don't tolerate any bullshit.
It does work if you're over 35. It works at any age.
How to keep a man: Stop being everything that women's magazines, blogs, vlogs, videos tell you that men want and just listen to your god damned instincts and when your man tells you to stop being so god damned childish, do it.
I like your view on this tho this isn't easy for men or women to tick all these boxes off. While this may help u keep your man, a good and healthy relationship also requires balance so the guy must also do he's part. Bonus question: what games do u play?
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You are wise beyond your years.
You will catch grief from "modern women" who think trying to make a man happy is evil. But happy men want to make their women happy. I know I do.
Sorry to tell you but you can do all this be the most beautiful woman in the world and he'll still leave you.. these are things you can do but again some women don't do all of this and are still in relationships
@Sarahloves19 I am sorry that something has warped your perception of men. Treating "them" right as u put it should come from the very elementary of being a person and that being human or a decent person no matter of others.. my next question is how or where does one find "the right guy". It's seems an impossibility to find such a person and I would go as far as saying that it is impossible. The 3 things u listened are all self regulated or controlled things. Men will never stop interacting with women just because they are in a relationship so it's up to the partner to not let such things rub them the wrong way. Anger usually stems from past and earlier experiences so the "right" guy would not have to even play out a specific senerio but to just trigger and u could be off to the races. And nagging is a something usually done by selfish people. If only they were put to the same and ever changing expectations.
@thrashnasty69 he can definitely talk to any gender. But when they double date or flirt leading on to sex i really hate it. I get mad at the fact that how can i be so loyal but my other half can't. It makes me feel like a fool.
U being a good person should never make you feel some type of way. And a decent humans we should strive to live good dicpite what's being done to or around us @sarahloves19 hopefully I was not to harsh
@Sarahloves19 why would the "right man" want anything to do with a bitter entitled hag who thinks that men are dogs. Had a bad relationship with your Dad, huh?
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I understand your point with the "I don't care" attitude, but I don't think you worded what you described correctly. I think it's more along the lines of trusting him and leaving if you can't.
As for cooking and cleaning (feminine tasks), I can do both. I don't enjoy either (mainly because I neither like eating nor cleaning), but I don't need a girl who does both. I need a girl who can do one of them occasionally.
1. Be Loyal
2. Don't Rob Me Money
3. Don't Be a B*tch
4. Don't Be a Crazy B*tch
5. Don't Be a Lying Victim B*tch
6. Don't Be a Narcissist B*tch
7. Don't Be a Drama B*tch
8. Don't Be a Cheating B*tch
9. Don't Be a Manipulating B*tch
10. Don't Be a Divorce R@ping B*tch
Did you start dehumanizing girls at 16 or after 18 to under 40?
Did your mother hurt you as a kid? (I know that women can be physically abusive
No 1 cover all the rest. If she is loyal, you don't have to worry about her robbing your money or cheating or being a crazy ass hoe
You'd probably get more pink upvotes if you made your point without overusing the word "bitch". The contents of what you say are true; only a narcissist would come out defending narcissism. But the wording is getting in the way, I suspect.
Fucking hell.
This so refreshing to see real advices about how to treat a guy right.
I was getting tired all these "dominate him" or "show him who's the boss" and other crap considering men as dangerous pets to keep on leash.
The only thing I'd add, is that you should do efforts for him, but expect him to do the same. Be his equal, the one to complete him, the one giving him what he wants while he'll give you what you want.
You can't just keep someone , the fuck, you could do literally everything "right" and the person could still leave you. There is no guarantee that someone will stay just cause you put on an act, follow "rules" or whatever. Everyone ould leave one day, you just never know
I think this post is spot on. I think a few are more important. I think women who are ungrateful are the worst. Nagging and ungrateful I'd rather drown myself than to be with someone like that ever again.
This is all true but the man will have to want to commit and see you as a woman who adds value in his life. Or else all of this makes no sense if he doesn't see you as a high valued woman he can't afford to lose. In that case, be willing to walk away ladies, and kick him to the curb someone else will appreciate all of this that she mentioned. Great mytake.
This is the best mytake I've ever read :)
Unfortunately though, its not always a guarantee because there are some women out there that do give it their all but aren't appreciated :(
The way men function I really don’t like it. They say that we love you our girlfriend wife but when we see other women we just notice them but d way men keep on staring god really bugs me like soemtimes I’ve noticed dey have deir girlfriend or wife right beside dem Nd dey’ll still state notice other girls around like what man don’t u like ur girl whose right dere !
1) Act your freaking age
2) Don’t be a little you know what
3) Don’t accuse him of things cause of your screwed up past relationships (all guys are not the same so don’t be that girl)
4) If you have kids with your man LET HIM SEE THEM (I don’t like a certain somebody in his family even though that certain somebody helped the mother of his kids THREE TIMES WHEN SHE WAS HOMELESS so he can’t see his own kids) 😐
Who hurt you lol...
Did I say anything about anybody hurting me? Let me see... nope I really don’t think so. I said 4 ways on how to keep a man so is there a PROBLEM with that? #4 has to do with my brother and his ignorant ass baby mom for whatever reason doesn’t like my grandma even though my grandma allowed the same girl who was homeless 3 different times to stay in her own home
I like it, everything is awesome i love it make sure to do one for women to cause i wanna see how i can do better in relationships
Great idea!
There's a saying you can make a 4 legged living being stay but not the 2 legged one. You can't make a man stay. You can put all your efforts. Ultimately it's his decision.
Nice take but the biggest one is to not put him on a pedestal.
Make him chase you a little sometimes but don’t over do it otherwise we get turned off
No... I’m not playing that game anymore...
These all ain't work if you are over 35s. Many men on this site are shallow idiots
By the way you just want us to be female cucks. Like we should not get jealous and let him be a whore or shit. Nah i dont want a male cunt as a boyfriend. He should not make me jealous in the first place
Well i can agree that a lot of men are sex craved, idiotic, annoying bastards but not all of us are thankfully so i do hope u find someone who isn't if you haven't already
Aww thank you
np stay safe, stay happy and stay awesome ight
Some people go too far one way or the other. Either they become doormats or they become pains in the asses to be with, and neither of those is good. It's all about balance. Be nice but don't tolerate any bullshit.
It does work if you're over 35. It works at any age.
Where does she say anything like that? I didn't see "Don't care if he fucks around" on the list.
What?
How to keep a man:
Stop being everything that women's magazines, blogs, vlogs, videos tell you that men want and just listen to your god damned instincts and when your man tells you to stop being so god damned childish, do it.
I like your view on this tho this isn't easy for men or women to tick all these boxes off. While this may help u keep your man, a good and healthy relationship also requires balance so the guy must also do he's part. Bonus question: what games do u play?
You are wise beyond your years.
You will catch grief from "modern women" who think trying to make a man happy is evil. But happy men want to make their women happy. I know I do.
Remove selfishness , make him a priority , make him feel wanted , not a convenience
Sorry to tell you but you can do all this be the most beautiful woman in the world and he'll still leave you.. these are things you can do but again some women don't do all of this and are still in relationships
Men are dogs. Their mission is to stick their sausage in EVERY hole. No need to treat them right. The right guy won't make me nag, angry or jealous.
@Sarahloves19 I am sorry that something has warped your perception of men. Treating "them" right as u put it should come from the very elementary of being a person and that being human or a decent person no matter of others.. my next question is how or where does one find "the right guy". It's seems an impossibility to find such a person and I would go as far as saying that it is impossible. The 3 things u listened are all self regulated or controlled things. Men will never stop interacting with women just because they are in a relationship so it's up to the partner to not let such things rub them the wrong way. Anger usually stems from past and earlier experiences so the "right" guy would not have to even play out a specific senerio but to just trigger and u could be off to the races. And nagging is a something usually done by selfish people. If only they were put to the same and ever changing expectations.
@thrashnasty69 he can definitely talk to any gender. But when they double date or flirt leading on to sex i really hate it. I get mad at the fact that how can i be so loyal but my other half can't. It makes me feel like a fool.
U being a good person should never make you feel some type of way. And a decent humans we should strive to live good dicpite what's being done to or around us @sarahloves19 hopefully I was not to harsh
@Sarahloves19 why would the "right man" want anything to do with a bitter entitled hag who thinks that men are dogs. Had a bad relationship with your Dad, huh?
1. Don't start pointless arguments
2. Maintain you looks
3. Suck his dick spontanly
If you can do these 3 things, you'll already be ahead of 99% of girls. Easy.
That's all good, healthy advice, ragequeen. It encourages self-confidence. Nice attitude. Great MyTake.