Ewww I cannot stand girls that spit. You're gross. You deserved the slap, I mean saliva is a body fluid and you got it all over his face... That's a bit dirty if you ask me. Plus, I think you're lying about the back story.. Two abusive boyfriends in a row? Because that's likely.. You're still under 18 for fucks sake
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i truly can care less if you think I'm lying, but don't bring age into this because can does not define at all what you've been though. I'm 17 in case you were wondering :)
Uneducated? I was offered a place in Cambridge university. No woman ever deserved it? I can tell you for a fact that if a guy spat on a girl shed fucking slap him. So what's the problem here? Why does this little bitch get to complain about it
Cambridge? Yeah, honestly, anyone can get good grades, anyone can go to school. It takes a person with VALUES, and consideration. They don't teach you the human race in school, so therefore, I can agree with the uneducated comment made about you.
I've put everything in my life on hold to look after my brother when I only just turned 19, I donated a ridiculously large sum of money to charity last week so why the fuck would I let some little bitch that spits on people, tell me that I'm uneducated and that I don't have values
i didn't even tell you that you were undedicated, you took it like that, that's your problem. i said age doesn't define what you've been through and all of your claims, you out of all people should've known that. you donated money? whooopdedoooo how is that important and relevant to anything? that doesn't make you a good person, especially since you felt the need to say it. you don't have values, if you did you would've learned how to treat people. especially since you say you had to take care and watch your brother, you would think that'll humble a person up. guess not. you are pointless to continue to respond too. you can keep calling me a "little bitch" who likes to spit on people, power to you, i haven't called you a single name, especially uneducated. you took what i said like that, that was allllll you beautiful.
Dump him. He should've let you go when you asked him, unless you were playing around. But even then, he shouldn't have slapped you hard, just a tap if you were both playing.
You should apologize but honestly your past has nothing to do with him. He should never have hit you and I would break up with him. If he does it once he'll do it again
If he physically abuses you, leave him now. That kind of stupid behavior does not go away. Loose the douchebag and never talk to him again. Why are girls stupid enough to stay in these situations? If someone treated my Sister like that I would be doing jail time for great bodily injury.
I think you need therapy and not get involved with someone else until you do. Sorry that happened but punishing the next guy for your ex will do no one any good and you will attract these types of guys.
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Fck no you shouldn't apologize. If he spit back at you.. that could be forgiven but to slap you in the face and leave a mark? You need to break up with him, that's just crazy.
I also think you shouldn't apologize unless he apologize about grabbing and slapping you. Just don't feel guilty about what you did, because you have only defended yourself without hurting him physically and he acted in a much worse way.
Finally, spitting on somebody is disrespectfull in a formal context but between partners is not so gross.
He shouldn't have slapped you. He really shouldn't have
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girl!! drop him like its hot! seriously he doesn't respect you at all and this is no sign of a classy guy! you dont deserve this forget him and move on!
Separate. Both of you crossed the line. I don't see anything positive about this relationship.
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He shouldn't have slapped you. You shouldn't have spit on him. You both acted like idiots and should both apologize.
He tried calling you and you ignored him so the onus is now on you to call him, and you do know what to say ("I'm sorry"). Done.
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fuck he should dump you your spit on him he should slap you for that. thats nasty
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He wouldn't let me go, I know it was disrespectful but no one fucking told him to grab me by my both my arms and not let me go, no right to touch me so I spit on him.
yes you are, sitting here talking shit about something you think you know? that's being a bitch. you speak the truth? how ignorant of you to even believe you know the truth, at least back your shit up girl.
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Ewww I cannot stand girls that spit. You're gross. You deserved the slap, I mean saliva is a body fluid and you got it all over his face... That's a bit dirty if you ask me. Plus, I think you're lying about the back story.. Two abusive boyfriends in a row? Because that's likely.. You're still under 18 for fucks sake
i truly can care less if you think I'm lying, but don't bring age into this because can does not define at all what you've been though. I'm 17 in case you were wondering :)
i already reported chessqueens comment. arguing against violence Using threats and violence. Smart
Uneducated? I was offered a place in Cambridge university. No woman ever deserved it? I can tell you for a fact that if a guy spat on a girl shed fucking slap him. So what's the problem here? Why does this little bitch get to complain about it
Cambridge? Yeah, honestly, anyone can get good grades, anyone can go to school. It takes a person with VALUES, and consideration. They don't teach you the human race in school, so therefore, I can agree with the uneducated comment made about you.
Going too school doesn't automatically make you a educated person. Education comes from the home first, then school.
I've put everything in my life on hold to look after my brother when I only just turned 19, I donated a ridiculously large sum of money to charity last week so why the fuck would I let some little bitch that spits on people, tell me that I'm uneducated and that I don't have values
i didn't even tell you that you were undedicated, you took it like that, that's your problem. i said age doesn't define what you've been through and all of your claims, you out of all people should've known that. you donated money? whooopdedoooo how is that important and relevant to anything? that doesn't make you a good person, especially since you felt the need to say it.
you don't have values, if you did you would've learned how to treat people. especially since you say you had to take care and watch your brother, you would think that'll humble a person up. guess not. you are pointless to continue to respond too. you can keep calling me a "little bitch" who likes to spit on people, power to you, i haven't called you a single name, especially uneducated. you took what i said like that, that was allllll you beautiful.
I treat people well if I want to. I have values
Dump him. He should've let you go when you asked him, unless you were playing around. But even then, he shouldn't have slapped you hard, just a tap if you were both playing.
You should apologize but honestly your past has nothing to do with him. He should never have hit you and I would break up with him. If he does it once he'll do it again
He should not have slapped that girl. But not every guy has soft corner for women.
Maybe try not spitting on people
I dunno, what is the question here?
Read my answer and comments
It sounds like you have a toxic relationship right NOW, forget about your ex. You should both leave each other and learn to be cool.
i agree :)
If 1 guy hits you, it's his fault. If 2 guys hit you, what the hell are you doing to cause this?
My thoughts exactly, I feel like we are not getting the full story here.
Spit on a guys cock during oral sex = you are a goddess
Spit in a guys face = be prepared to get slapped
If he physically abuses you, leave him now. That kind of stupid behavior does not go away. Loose the douchebag and never talk to him again. Why are girls stupid enough to stay in these situations? If someone treated my Sister like that I would be doing jail time for great bodily injury.
Agreed. He had no right to grab you just cause you don't wanna go out with him and his mom
I think you need therapy and not get involved with someone else until you do. Sorry that happened but punishing the next guy for your ex will do no one any good and you will attract these types of guys.
Fck no you shouldn't apologize. If he spit back at you.. that could be forgiven but to slap you in the face and leave a mark? You need to break up with him, that's just crazy.
I'm not excusing what he did but he did tell her he was going to do that if she spit on him. That's like poking a bear and expecting not to get bit.
she told him to let go of her arm and he wouldn't let go.. she warmed him that she would spit on him if he didn't let go so...
he started it.
He was grabbing both of my wrist and it was painful too, so I had no way to get out and I didn't want to physically hurt him
I also think you shouldn't apologize unless he apologize about grabbing and slapping you. Just don't feel guilty about what you did, because you have only defended yourself without hurting him physically and he acted in a much worse way.
Finally, spitting on somebody is disrespectfull in a formal context but between partners is not so gross.
Hmm...
Newton's 3rd law of motion:
For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction.
Because slapping us equal to spit? Really?
Nahh slapping a not really equal.. A punch sounds better to me
I wouldn't of slapped you. Simply straight up tell you it's over and leave. Not worth stooping down to your level.
true that
doesn't matter what you did to him, he's not man for laying a hand on you
Both of you need to apologize and then go your separate ways
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He shouldn't have slapped you. He really shouldn't have
girl!! drop him like its hot! seriously he doesn't respect you at all and this is no sign of a classy guy! you dont deserve this forget him and move on!
You spit on your boyfriend you deserved what you got
Separate. Both of you crossed the line. I don't see anything positive about this relationship.
He shouldn't have slapped you. You shouldn't have spit on him. You both acted like idiots and should both apologize.
He tried calling you and you ignored him so the onus is now on you to call him, and you do know what to say ("I'm sorry"). Done.
fuck he should dump you your spit on him he should slap you for that. thats nasty
He wouldn't let me go, I know it was disrespectful but no one fucking told him to grab me by my both my arms and not let me go, no right to touch me so I spit on him.
give us the back story of why he grabbed you
idc if he grabed you two wrongs do not make a right
oh well if i ask someone to get their hands off me and I'm not really able to move i will use whatever i can to get out of their grip
your just a bitch who made a fake bf and bf story for attettion
im anonymous, how is that asking for attention? if anyone is a bitch here its you hahaha.
its fake bitch i am not a bitch i speak the truth
yes you are, sitting here talking shit about something you think you know? that's being a bitch. you speak the truth? how ignorant of you to even believe you know the truth, at least back your shit up girl.
bitch i am not as gross as u spitting on ur boyfriend oh wait ex boyfriend u deserve to be slapped.
we are actually still together, haha. you can keep sending comments but I'm gonna ignore you, you are clearly a little girl and dumb.
He was wrong and you were wrong. But he was more wrong. He has no excuse for hitting someone. None