Good or Bad? 18 year old girl attracted to older men?

[Anonymous]

I know guys love having sexual relationships with girls that are young, like 18 year olds. But the other way around, think about it. How do guys feel towards serious girls that are atrracted to older men, like 30+ year olds? Is this weird, or totally normal, or sexy?

[Anonymous]

At 18 I wanted older men, because I wanted to be treated like a woman. They seem more manly and I imagined they would treat me better.
The truth is, it's rare that a long term relationship will be made of the situation. You may just be a confidence boost for them, because they can bed someone so young. It's got to be a turn on that you have a body that's not yet ruined by life, a tight pussy and pert breasts.
I think it's normal, as long as you both know you just want to fuck, or fool about,
It's not weird and I am sure there are 30 year old men who would love to fuck a young girl.

[molan]

I am 37, my girlfriend just turned 23, we have been together for two years. Does it count as a long term relationship or potentially as one?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I'd say that's long term. I think you've proven me to be wrong, on whether it can work out.

I think it's normal to be unusually attracted someone who is much older and much younger because of their age, (not below consent) but because there is an attraction to their maturity or innocence. I do regret saying it doesn't last, because that is only true, if age is the only reason you are attracted to them. If you like that person anyway, then age is just a number.
Life it to be experienced, not just lived.
Molan- I hope you and your girlfriend have many more happy years together.

[cavmanier]

I think it's more of a thing than bad or good. Yes it's very normal to be attracted to a 30 year old guy. It's not like there aren't tons of attractive people in their 30s. I don't think age is everything. Yes there are 30 yo's that will have malicious intentions towards you, but I think there are plenty would treat you well. I personally don't care about the chronological age we are as much who as the individual is. I would date a girl much younger than me, it's just unlikely I would like her mentality enough. If I did like a really young girl, I don't see an issue as long as it's legal.

[Asker]

Thank you very much!:)

[cavmanier]

Hope I helped :)

[Asker]

You did for sure!! :)

[stevie123]

I know girls that like older men.
It is rare, but normal.
How you feel about someone is what's normal for you.
In reality, age is just a number, who or what you like is what's important.
Cougar women date younger guys.
Attraction is sexy at any age.

[molan]

I never met a man who didn't wanted to have sex with an 18 yo girl, but a lationship is something completely different and you'll have to be very mature of your age to make it work or he has to be very immature to make it work - if we are talking 30+. Most likely 25-30 would be your ideal age group.

[Iwanabreedyou]

I think its very sexy and most men are attracted to younger ladies! I know I am! younger ladies seem to take better care of them selves and are way wore attractive. I am 48 and would love to be with a younger woman. I prefer ladies from 18 to 30. I feel older men can teach you a lot about your body and they know how to please a younger woman sexually. I think its very normal and very sexy!

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Arkannor]

I don't think it's weird. Personally I don't connect well with friends my age, I think their immature. I don't feel attracted to women older than me, but it makes sense that you might be.

[aappetiny]

Thats normal thing.