Why do men like bitches?

[Anonymous]

Why do men like bitches not the nice girl? Is it bitches are easy to catch while nice girl is hard to get? Or bitches are easy to get into a bed with a guy, while nice girls will demand for getting marriage?

[meimnot]

My personal experience is the opposite. Men want bitches.Someone they have to keep chasing and who'll keep humiliating them and ridiculing their every move. When you're even the slightest bit nice to a good man, like you give them a compliment, they act like they're dealing with a "psycho stalker" who's SO getting on their last nerve!

I'm a nice person and I regret that I wasn't raised a bitch because I have officially driven away every nice guy who I'd ever been interested in, by being nice to them. The men who tend to attach themselves to me are not "good men", they always have a hidden agenda.to steal something from me.to make me give them my money.or something along those lines. I don't want to have to change in order to be appreciated by the nice men. I want to be liked and understood for who I am as a person not for a fake identity I'd be assuming.

The worst thing about it ,is that these men keep crying about how badly these bitches treated them, and how they got taken to the cleaners, but as soon as a genuinely nice girl approaches, they treat her like crap, walk all over her and run towards the same "bitch" type they'd been crying about in the first place. I figured out why they manage to walk into the same river a number of times and still never learn.

Most men, even though they "prey" for a nice girl haven't made up their mind yet. They don't know what they really want. Also if a nice girl comes into their lives they already have an assumption based on their previous experiences, dating back all the way to their high school days when the first girl made fun of them, that all women are the same so they decide to hurt her before she gets a chance to hurt him. So, unless you can go back in time and take away the humiliation they'd experienced throughout their entire life from bitches, you're really just screwed if you're a nice girl.

Sorry, nice girls, we only have three options 1. become bitches, 2. date garbage of the world who'll rob us every time we turn around, or 3. stay single for life and hope that God will have a mercy on us some day and by some weird twist of fate we'll run into an un-tainted man. (very unlikely)

[Asker]

I think you are almost rite on it!

[UnicornLoveChild]

I think guys like bitches because, even though they are bitches, they are usually VERY good looking, and the guys get blinded by their outter beauty. And plus, the bitches put on this nice girl mask when they first meet the guy to suck him in, but when she stops faking nice the guy will find out who she really is and he will either accept it or decline it. A lot of the time a guy will except a bitch because she's hot and easy :p.

But, if a girl is a true bitch, she won't stay with a guy for long, she will cheat on him with someone she finds better looking. And then he will dump her, and be like, "Wow. My ex is really a bitch!" and his best friend will say, "Well, no shit sherlock!" bahahahaha. Well, that's just what I've seen happen.

[Asker]

Yupe! agreed with u! thks

[GoodManDave]

I know that in the past, I've been a poor judge of character. I end up being interested in so called good girls who are really just nasty people underneath.

Here's the usual deal. I meet a woman (actually, just a girl or "princess" in disguise) who seems nice, responsible, kind, trustworthy. If interested, and in the rare chance that the girl manages to stay put for more than 2 months, and I feel like I have something in common with her, and that she's great, I may take the risk and ask her out.

Once I do (or if I dare to HINT at the idea that I'm interested by so much as flirting), I get full blown (and undeserved) cruelty. I find out who they really are, and I'm not so interested at this point.

In this case, and in my defense, I'm not interested once I find out they're nasty. And I figure that if they're nasty to good guys who treat them with respect, then, well, like I said, they're really ugly people underneath.

Perhaps it's the technicality that I'm attracted to "bitches in disguise" (Try singing the Transformer's theme there). But some people are great liars, and can be extremely convincing. And that's not my fault.

Actually, if I meet a cool real woman who treats me with respect and love, then that's what I search for. It seems to be getting harder to find these days.

[Superstrength79]

Bitches, transform, and ROLL OUT!

[Bubbles123X]

You say they change when you start flirting. How are you flirting? Reason I ask is I'm noticing a very worrying trend. Guys act like overt sexual innuendo is 'flirting'. This is sleaze, actually... may explain why they change

[GoodManDave]

@Bubbles123X Oh no... I don't flirt by sexual innuendo (I've tried to stop making innuendos, & "That's what she said" jokes... but it's SO hard.)... In all seriousness, I'm pretty "innocent" when I flirt...

1) I avoid compliments about things they can't change or control... I generally don't go for the "you're hot" type stuff. So not only do I avoid "You're gorgeous" (at least until I know her well enough), but I don't really get into the physical stuff. "Nice ass!" No. Just... no.

"Hey, I like your glasses" or "wow, I like how you braided/styled your hair!" "Hey, you have an amazing fashion sense."

Once in a while, If I feel like I know the girl... "Wow, you look amazing!" when she does go all out...

My "flirting" is more of the subtle stuff, as well as the compliments. Not constantly, either... shoulder touch on occasion. That sort of thing. I don't paw on girls, really. Pretty innocent, from what I can tell. I think it's my looks mostly that hurt my chances.

[NotSoBad]

I'll be honest I'm one that has been drawn to bitches. I have been blindly attracted to "crazy/beautiful" I don't like girls who are dishonest but if a girl has a little attitude and can show her emotions then I'm fine with it. Just because you are a bitch it doesn't mean you are a slut. I don't like the types of bitches that are out to hurt others. My ex was like that. It was like everyone was out to get her. She would do anything for attention. I mean she was a real nasty bitch one that would go to a wedding in a skimpy dress just to get more attention than the bride. I hate those types of bitches. I mean she was sadistic. She did things to hurt others for her own pleasure. That's why I'm happy I got out of there.

But if a girl is willing to argue a bit that is fine.

Can I say that I like a nice girl with an attitude? Lol

[Asker]

I agreed with you, mostly the bitches think that they 're beautiful and sexy yet to get any man to asked her out for drinks or have sex together, and then dump them. Whoever man who fall to her, finally will get hurt for no reason.

[Bubbles123X]

Awesome! (sorry, can't argue with this haha)

[good-looking-geek]

It depends what guy you are talking about. I personally hate bitches also. I like the nice girls who don't get angry easily and who don't complain about everything. I don't mind having to work hard to get a nice girl into bed either, because it shows she's intelligent.

No man really likes bitches, but sometimes the sluttiest girls are bitches; and that's what some men are after. And those same horny men don't like the nice girls, because they just want sex without the emotions. Amazingly, some girls who are bitches think the same way.

[ionlife]

Can you elaborate on what you consider a bitch?

I don't think all "bitches" are necessarily easier to get into bed than nice girls or even easier to catch. I've encountered quite a few seemingly nice girls which, after peeling a few layers of their personality, were quite the expert bitches.

As for the attraction, some of these bitches are a challenge and quite a few guys like the challenge or even think they could change their personality.

[Asker]

A bitch which a girl who is easily fall in love with a guy which just having a 3 date only, and then she's willing to introduced the guy to their friends & family that "he's my boyfriend". After awhile, the girl will drop by to the guy's house and sleep together.

[ionlife]

Unless I've been living under a rock that pretty much describes a lot of girls. Having said that, I would not personally equate a girl who easily falls for a guy as a "bitch. " To me a "bitch" is a woman who has the personality of white shark and in whose presence I'd rather wish I was chewing on broken glass.

[DeanW]

I'm having trouble with the question asker's definition of a bitch. If that's what a bitch is then I would like her too - kind of sounds like a loving girlfriend.

I don't think you've been living under a rock, though I do think white sharks mind the analogy to them.

[Asker]

Actually, I mean a 'bitch" is a lewd woman. Who will have a several boyfriend and just wanna have fun.

[ionlife]

A Slut?

[Asker]

Yup ! A woman of a low class or loose character .

[SeanE]

Sorry, but I'm one of the exceptions. I HATE bitches.

[SeanE]

There is a book written on this subject though, if you go to a major bookstore, like borders perhaps, in the psychology section, you can't miss it. The cover is obvious, I just don't remember exactly what is says :P

[Asker]

Yupe! I've the book , and I just need you guys out there to give some opinion regards to this bitches matter.

[straykat]

Bitches are easier to understand, usually know what they want, and know how to state it. Works for me. That's better than some "nice girl" who calculates and guards everything they say or do, and makes you fish for even the smallest bit of info. Especially the type that will throw a fit, and make you try to figure out why -- all of out some belief that you're supposed to know already, and supposed to "take charge". To me, that's the real bitch.

[Anonymous]

Why do women prefer a drug addict a**hole that treats them bad and cheats on then instead of the nice guy who has proven many times he really cares about her?

[Bubbles123X]

It isn't that the drug addict is an asshole. It's that the drug addict keeps them guessing. We don't really want assholes, we want INTERESTING people who are a bit unpredictable. It creates chemistry. Be nice but change it up a bit... good luck.