My boyfriend choked me until I experienced something what's called "tunnel vision" he now tells me to "get the fuck over it" because I didn't die? (Page 3)
Just break up with him over the phone or something. Also, you should probably contact the police to make them aware of the situation. Maybe ask them what you should do, and if they could help you.
the lord won't protect her if she randomly attacks men. You read the question, right? "attacked him with all my strength." So if I randomly see a text on my girlfriend's phone and decide to "attack her with all my strength" will the lord protect me?
Too often, people let their emotions take over and make bad decisions. She made a bad decision and probably didn't think it through when she attacked him. Regardless, the Lord understands and forgives. If she realizes what she did was wrong, repents and then takes action without using violence to end the relationship for her safety, she will be protected.
What I'm saying is I don't have the authority or experience to judge anyone or to help them through this kind of situation; it's very complicated, dangerous and is emotionally nerve-wracking. I don't have any tips for going about getting the hell out of there or making amends but all I know is that they are both in the wrong and she needs out. As long as she doesn't go ape-shit on him again God will support her method of leaving, however she decides to do so. I hope she can find a strategy from those that CAN help her out, and I will keep her in my prayers.
Plan out how to leave. 1st is your safety. 2nd is your security. Everything else, the terms if what you need, is all second to those. If he's prone to violence, obviously your not going to tell him until physically safe from him and after your already gone.
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That's abusive, he had no right to do that. End it quick before it gets worse
Two things you need... duck tape and a serrated steak knife :p
Yeah, that will teach him not to fuck around again :)
that's illegal. report him, could of killed you and he doesn't seem to care
Get out.
You both messed up massively.
And why exactly are you still with him?
I want to leave him but Im scared because he will hurt me
Just break up with him over the phone or something. Also, you should probably contact the police to make them aware of the situation. Maybe ask them what you should do, and if they could help you.
Leave him.. he's abusive.
I'm tried to leave today it didn't work
What do you mean @Asker it didn't work?
Earlier in the day I said fuck off I'm. Leaving he said "no way" now im waiting for him to go to sleep so I can leave
He doesn't own you. Leave his ass
Pray for your safety, the Lord will protect you.
the lord won't protect her if she randomly attacks men. You read the question, right? "attacked him with all my strength." So if I randomly see a text on my girlfriend's phone and decide to "attack her with all my strength" will the lord protect me?
Too often, people let their emotions take over and make bad decisions. She made a bad decision and probably didn't think it through when she attacked him. Regardless, the Lord understands and forgives. If she realizes what she did was wrong, repents and then takes action without using violence to end the relationship for her safety, she will be protected.
What I'm saying is I don't have the authority or experience to judge anyone or to help them through this kind of situation; it's very complicated, dangerous and is emotionally nerve-wracking. I don't have any tips for going about getting the hell out of there or making amends but all I know is that they are both in the wrong and she needs out. As long as she doesn't go ape-shit on him again God will support her method of leaving, however she decides to do so. I hope she can find a strategy from those that CAN help her out, and I will keep her in my prayers.
What is your question?
How do I get out of the relationship?
Plan out how to leave. 1st is your safety. 2nd is your security. Everything else, the terms if what you need, is all second to those. If he's prone to violence, obviously your not going to tell him until physically safe from him and after your already gone.
She hit him too ya know.
"attacked him with all my strength"
Over a damn text.
I noticed you're still calling him your boyfriend.
What a great relationship you two must have
There's no need to mock me and be sarcastic
Run away. It's only going to get worse.
do you have kids with him?
No kids
But we are living together
Why the hell are you two fighting?
We have been fighting about a lot of things recently and it wasn't until today the fighting was drastic
You need to walk away from the relationship before you have an accident.
just walk out...
and you call it relationship? INTERESTING :3 -_-