Does facetiming with a person from another state considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

Have been in a relationship for a little more than a year amd recently discoveres he has been face timing for hours with a girl from florida that he used to go to school years ago, he denied it at first and once i showed him prove he admitted he denied because he thought i will be mad and he is onlu talking to her. I dont do these things and i consider any guy who will talk to a her daily over the phone and face time is looking for more than a relationship and on top of that lies about it. What should i do? Why he is having that behavior now instead of at rhe begining of our relationship.

[HookingSwan]

I can't say anything about him cheating on u or not cheating on u... I don't know ehat goes in his mind. For me the biggest issue jere is that he feels comfortable lying to you over this girl. The lie should tell u what kind of person u will be having a relationship with. He should have trusted u more than that and gave u the beneffit of te doubt by telling u the truth. Being very honest here, I dont think it is a good sign for u guys that he lied so blatantly to u about something that important (talking in a regular basis with a member of the opposite sex). Quite frankly if he had any respect for u he would even feel guilty just by talking to her, lies aside. Hope I helped.

[Anonymous]

Facetiming itself is not cheating in my opinion, as long as it's really a friend it is happening with. However, if this is happening daily, he's trying to hide it from you and then denies it then yes, there's probably reason to be worried.

[AngeVashes]

If he is spending more time face timing some girl, than spending actual time with you while your there I would say this is a problem. Although myself I do not live with my girlfriend so there is the need for personal space, but aside from that fact if he lied about it and is hiding it from you I would be concerned. Best to try and talk about it and if he tries to avoid the conversation then things aren't looking to well in your favor.

[Asker]

I talked about it after i showed him prove he said she is just a friend that he loves me and will never cheat on me and he would never do it again but i dont know if i should trust him or not...

[Anonymous]

It is cheating, if you are in a committed relationship there isn't any reason for your significant other to be facetiming with a member of the opposite sex. Call me old fashion but I think its not appropriate behavior especially if they are hiding it and or lying about it.