Simple solution. Don't care if girls think you're a loser or not--don't care what other people think of you. And don't place labels on yourself, it's self-destructive.
That doesn't mean you should accept being less than the best possible version of yourself. Always be trying for more, becoming better, shooting for the stars in life. But if you are doing that, becoming the best version of yourself in body, mind, and spirit, the judgments of other people shouldn't concern you in the least.
And for what it's worth, there are always going to be women who think you, or some other guy, is a complete loser. Every guy in the world, myself included, is a complete loser in the eyes of some girl out there. Why care what they think? Care about your own self-image, and don't place pressure on yourself about other people's acceptance of you. They'll like you or they won't, and while you have to put the effort forward to make things happen, if you can teach yourself to become outcome independent, no girl's rejection or acceptance of you will become a cause for tears or celebration--it will just be another small chapter in the larger story of your life.
Don't sweat it ;)
Well, yeah you have been a looser, so either you can sit and cry over it or go out and try again either ways you got nothing to loose (Except your virginity).
No your not a loser honestly some women may find that to be a good thing. Well if you really want a women be little more fwd and social. Put yourself out there more. Yes you'll get rejected sometimes but that's ok everyone does. Just keep trying there's a girl out there that will find you attractive.
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You're definitely not a loser. You're still not that old and girls may find it endearing that you're not too experienced. Things happen at different times for everyone. Don't worry about it. Just be confident in yourself and I'm sure you'll find someone soon :)
At this point I wouldn't particularly worry too much. When you can look at things on a much broader scale, the need for a relationship is able to fall into the background of your mind, life and interests.
Definitely not a loser. Maybe a genius? Sometimes I wish I was you. No worrying or anything. Relaxing going out when I want to. Just remember buddy there is a reason why people say "Bitches be crazy"
I am more of a deep loser. I am in my 30's, kissless, virgin, and no girlfriend.
Fuck my life.
Not a loser in the least, sir.
i would keep this hidden
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