How to make Unromantic girlfriend romantic?

[Nyankage]

I ask u guys ofcoz I'm losing my patience, as I said, yes, she is cold hearted girlfriend, becoz of her behaviors I sometimes think that she doesn't actually love me. But yesterday I have chatted with her sister and told about my problems, then she said me that my girlfriend really loves me. She also said that when my girlfriend was sick and I couldn't contact her, her sister ask her that she should breakup with me and she answered no, she also confessed to her sister that how I'm always so kind to her and how I love her. Her sister told me that she is sure my girlfriend loves me. I'm was a lot happy but I thought if so, why she didn't show her love to me? Why she acted so cold towards me? Why she doesn't care about my feeling? I thought and thought and thought and then I hav found the answer, she is unromantic type. So I want her to be more romantic. Ofcoz I can't stand her behaviors. I talked directly to her and nothing was changed. Ifcoz I need u guys' help.

(We broke up once becoz of her coldness, but both of us miss so much each other and now we are couple as before. I really love her and I don't want break ups anymore. )

[fauchelevent]

You might have to just try to cope with it. If you're girlfriend is unromantic, then that's just part of her personality that you might not be able to change and may just have to accept. However, if it's really distressing you, I recommend that you sit her down and talk to her about it. Make sure that you keep mentioning how much you love her, and don't make her feel like you'll break up with her if she's not romantic, but explain that it upsets you and makes you worried and ask if there's anything she feels she could do to be more romantic. But be prepared to realise that if she is unromantic by personality, being romantic could make her very uncomfortable and it might not be what she wants.

[Nyankage]

Thanks for ur advice :-)

[Anonymous]

I am like this and my ex-boyfriend left me for being cold. He thought that I didn't love him and this was true. But still, I don't think that this was a reason to break up.
If you don't like her the way she is, better break up with her.

[singlebee]

Ahhh well it sucks for real man!!! I mean does she kiss you? Or cuddle you? Or hold hands or sleep on your chest while you watch TV or something... LOL I mean if she doesn't do that then she is extremely unromantic... And its actually her personality... I don't think that you can do anything about it... only she can..

I understand if you feel unloved... Even I would feel unloved... So if you wanna breakup then you should... I mean its not fair... to be in a loveless relationship...

Or you could stay and with time she may open up to you... Sometimes you people can take time to open up..

[Bards]

Go to couples therapy.

[Nyankage]

Thanks for ur advice but in my country, there is no such service as couples therapy. :(

[Bards]

Oh that stinks.

[Anonymous]

diamonds always worked for me...

[Nyankage]

Haha ^_^ , gotta go jewllery.

[singlebee]

Gold digger

[Opinion Owner]

I have my own cash thank you

[Not_Helping]

Beat that romance into her.

[complicated_soul]

Lol :D

[Anonymous]

Fight her, dude.