Depending on my mood, I either ignore him and give him space or I start yelling too.
The thing that really makes me mad is that after this "fight", he's expects me to apologize to him because he thinks it's my fault.
Latest example-
We were over at my house watching tv. The show ended so I picked up the remote and changed the channel. He completely flipped out, started screaming and cursing about me controlling things or something. I kinda tuned out a bit, and asked him to leave.
The next day he texts me and tells me he's really upset and that when I'm ready to apologize, he'll forgive me.
In the past I did apologize for these situations because even though I know I didn't do anything wrong, it would just be easier to say I'm sorry so we can move on. He doesn't get upset often, he never tells me the real reason. We just don't talk about it anymore.
But I'm getting really fed up with being the one who has to apologize because I feel like he should do that.
Have you ever been in a situation like this? How do you handle it?
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