I'm Too Busy for a Relationship.... Excuse or Truth?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing this guy for about three months (we met on New Years) and, since both of us work a lot we only managed to find time to hang out once a week (which we were both fine with). For two weeks I didn't see him much (because of work) but once my schedule cleared up we made a date and everything seemed fine. He texted all through the week to see how I was doing and then when he called near the week's end he brought up the 'where do we stand conversation.' Long story short, even though I did not make demands on his time (i.e. calling, texting out of control, forcing him to set a date) he said he couldn't give me a serious relationship because he was too busy with work, He then followed this statement up with but we should still hang out (and do everything we were doing when dating). This does not make sense to me. So he has time to give me if I agree to no labels but not if I want the girlfriend title. Any thoughts on this one? This feels like a load of b/s to me!

[RedStiletto]

Load of BS is right hun. This guy wants you at HIS convenience so you need to stop making it so convenient for him. Get yourself busy with other things, and as hard as this may be to do...the next time he asks you to "hang out" tell him you have plans of your own. even if you don't. This might spark his interest. And if it doesn't, then you've got your answer. When a man wants to be in a relationship, he will be.

[Anonymous]

He's just looking for fun, no strings attached.

[natalieee_hk]

Ditto to that.