I Think Her Boyfriend Hates Me?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl that I really like and I hang out with her all the time. She has a boyfriend, but I rarely see him with her when I see her. I ran into her the other day and her boyfriend was with her... we chatted for a bit, but he was giving me the evil eye the whole time and didn't really speak to me at all. I think he hates me. Should I try to be nice to him? I think he's mad at me cause I'm trying to steal his g/f, but it's really not my fault if she likes me.

[tex151]

How do you know she likes you, you like her but that doesn't mean she likes you. Her boyfriend knows you like her, and I guarantee you that she told him that you like her, and it probably went something like this, she told her boyfriend that she has this friend, that would be you, and not to worry about him but he does like her, but the two of you are just friends and nothing more so he has nothing to worry about.

If I saw the guy that was hitting on my girlfriend all the time I would be p*ssed to, and not want to talk to him, I wouldn't say anything because what's the point, no reason to cause a scene over nothing. If they were just friends, nothing I can do about that, I trust her and she trusts me, once the trust is broken, well then we would have a problem.

[Asker]

I never told her I liked her though, so how would she or her boyfriend know that either? But really what you're saying is I ned to break their trust somehow in order to get her? Sorry, I forgot to mention that her boyfriend was sort of neutral with me it seemed until I bought her a gift, after that is when he seemed to be all angry looking whenever I saw him.

[tex151]

She knows you like her, without you even having to say anything, and then you brought her a gift well there you go proof right there. Keep in mind once a chick is with a guy she really likes it is very difficult to try and get her to cheat or to break up with her bf. And the guys who can get a chick to cheat or break up aren't the guys that bring a chick gifts.

[Anonymous]

w.e, f*** this other guy... he's probably thinking the same thing about you & would definitly knock you if he thought he was sure you were trying to take his girl.

if your looking to steal his girlfriend just give it time, he'll try to pick a fight with you, kick his ass & after that you'll probably get what you want.

you obviously want her & are threatened by the competition you have & it bothered you so much you needed to post it online.

or you can ignore the whole thing and go look 4 a different girl(that wouldn't be cool btw)

if you like her keep talking to her & if her boyfriend has a problem then deal with him but don't start the problem cause that'll make you look like the bad guy.

[landingsight]

Are you sure she even likes you? I've personally had problems (and heard of many other girls have problems) with guys picking up signals that they aren't giving - that is, guys interpret our being nice to them as "I like you" - which it's totally not.

She might be uncomfortable with you, actually, and have told her boyfriend about it, which would explain his keeping an eye on you. Whether you've told her you like her or not, most girls are really good at picking up on it.

If I were you, I'd just back off. And yes, if you're actively trying to steal this guy's girlfriend, it is your fault - for all you know, they could be completely happy together.

[Asker]

I don't think she's uncomfortable with me in the sense that she doesn't want to be around me, because she contacts me to hang out with her all the time. Maybe she doesn't like me though, who knows. She does mention little things about her boyfriend to me all the time though like how he's lazy or plays too much video gams and other complaints. Do you do that sometimes just to blow off some steam? or do you think she is giving signals he's a loser? I wouldn't say things like that about my gf

[landingsight]

She may very well just be blowing off steam. I certainly complained about my boyfriend to my male friends and solicited them to hang out while we were dating, even though I wasn't attracted to any of them. I just wanted to be their friend, and treat them like close friends, and nothing more.

[Asker]

Nah, I'm pretty sure she likes me... can't see why she wouldn't.

[landingsight]

I really hope you're being sarcastic.

In the off-chance that you're not, get over yourself. You don't know what she looks for or wants in men, so don't assume that you're God's gift to her. I reiterate: back off this girl.

Or heck, talk to her and explain what's going on. Maybe you'll find out that she actually does like you, but don't assume it (particularly because she already has someone).

[Asker]

I was kidding, Tiger Woods is God's gift to women, not me. Anyway, it is her birthday this week and I was thinking of getting her just a card. I think her boyfriend would get upset if I bought her a gift even though we're friends, but I don't want to totally overlook her birthday either.

[makevali]

Landing sight doesn't know sh*t, make her boyfriend look bad and make yourself look better fill in the voids he missed like how she complains to you and go on from there, don't act like a looser just a friend flirt with her and test yourself don't ever tell her how you feel, go for a kiss at the right moment and see if she's into you or not

[landingsight]

Thanks for setting me straight, makevali. I'm sure your experience, as a female, with a boyfriend, who's been hit on by other male friends, makes you much more qualified to offer advice than I.

[m3TALchick]

What? lol. Do you like this girl? If so then I guess he does have a right with the "evil eyes". My guy friend contacts me all the time to hang out and my boyfriend comes with. We all have a great time. If your nicer to him, he gonna think your trying to kiss his ass. Just be yourself around him.

[Asker]

Of course I like her. But yeah, we hang out too... we just don't invite him. lol. She has even made comments like, "he's not allowed to come, because this is supposed to be fun."

[m3TALchick]

Well if you like her, then what are you intentions? It common for girls to not want their boyfriend to come with them when their hanging out with their friends, cause sometimes they feel that they might be a "drag", or they want some away time.

[elektrisitee]

He feels threatened by you. You have a friendship with his woman, and he doesn't like that she cares for you as well.

It is a selfish thing to do, but a little jealousy is normal. Would you enjoy seeing your girlfriend get attention from another guy? Even if they were just friends?

[l-hedoniste]

It's not your fault that she likes you, It's your fault that you're trying to steal his girlfriend TO HIS FACE.

He would be *well* within his rights to deck you. Keep your distance.

[martyfellow]

He is definitely insecure and yes, you should try to reassure him by being friendly with him.

But he may not accept your overtrures...be ready for that, be ready to walk away gracefully.