Have any of you ever experienced this? Please tell me why
If my boyfriend thinks I'm immature, why is he still with me?
Have any of you ever experienced this? Please tell me why
If it's something he sees as a major flaw and actually dislikes it then I'm not too sure as to why he stays with you, it could be because of your looks, or maybe all of your other qualities that he sees in your outweighs that single flaw but sometimes it just aggravates him at times so he lashes out about it, or just a bad mood and that builds up ontop of his current stress. You can always say you're younger than him though, im sure its because of all the qualities you do have, if people were to leave every person they date for a single flaw then relationships would never work out.
It's because he doesn't dislike you as a person even if you are silly and immature. He knows that you are young and that you will mature with time. He likes you for your nature, for your personality.
He should of found a girl his own age. I'm 28 I wouldn't dream of going near a 21 year old.
Because your positive qualities compliment his and override your negative ones
if he's so mature, why is he dating someone almost a decade younger.
Better question is, if she's doesn't want to feel immature, why is she dating a guy 7 years older than she is?
@HarvestMoon I don't care if I'm immature, I'm young so let me be young and dumb and enjoy my time. And im dating him because I like him a lot, I've dated guys his age. Out of 3 of them, he's the most mature one, which is what I want. I could give a list of things I like about him.
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He's the immature one, and he needs to stop doing this. It's disrespectful and it's understandably upsetting. It's his way of holding power in the relationship. If he won't stop, then you should dump him and date a grown-up.
My girlfriend is very childish. I'm very mature for my age is suppose. I make 1,250 a week compared to her 460 a month. She's in college so I give her that. I think it makes me feel a little less old
The money you make vs the money she makes has nothing to do with maturity. It's kind of pathetic to think that you can compare the two like that. It really has nothing to do with how mature she is..
@Default_Hore well I didn't really explain well. She still lives with her parents, afraid to leave her house ever, she is always bubbly cute & makes me feel kind of more down to earth when I'm with her. It's not about the money. I mean for a while she was helping me.
She is always goofy and makes me feel like a kid again. We're the same age but my dad was sent away when I was 4 and my mom was never there for me so at the age of 10 I was already having to support my self in most ways.
I guess I never really lived a child hood so it's a good feeling tk have her.
Nkt to mention she's pretty and one of the nicest / smartest people I've ever met
Well that's good man, yeah just look at all the benefits she gives you, its just from your first message I felt as if you were hating or pulling your own girlfriend down as if you didn't appreciate her, even if it's just in that one way or if she is making less money than you, doesn't mean you can talk negatively about her. Glad you have somebody like her to lighten you up and make you know that life doesn't always have to be so serious. It's nice to just take a breather and enjoy the view and all that you've accomplished.
@Default_Hore me too bro me too! I have a very stressful job and it's nice to come home tk such a beautiful wonderful woman. Her smile makes me actually smile too. The fact is I was neglected as a kid and her attention makes me soooo happy. Everyone deserves someone like that. I try to treat her as much as humanly possible but I know I can't always do it.
Of course you're immature. You're 7 years younger than he. Even if you're 2 years younger, you'd be a bit immature compared to the guy. Just accept it; it's natural.
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