They might care for whoever they are cheating on but to truly love them I don't think so You wouldn't hurt your mum or dad or your kids because you love them right? So same applies to a gf/BF hubby or wife...
yes you can still love a person after you cheat on them. but you"re not IN LOVE with this person. but if you really love this person let him or her go. nobody deserves that
Absolutely - for a fantastic shag I'd do it - and it'd have zero impact on how I feel about anyone else. I think anything else is just being deluded/living in lalaland.
When I hear that I think of if someone where to ask "can you emotional/financially/physically abuse someone and love them?". To me no for that and for your question.
No, because that person is thoughtless and cowardly. There are NO excuses for cheating. It is NEVER a mistake. It is always a deliberate act of betrayal.
@Gommers I suppose it's all about perspective. I don't think education has anything to do with how people feel about one another or interact with each other. It seems to me that cheating is more about intimacy and affirmation than anything else.
Cheating is about affirmation alone, nothing else. It serves to show that you are able to have more than one man, which is a boost to your self esteem however it also destroys your sense of self because you realize how shit of a person you are for intentionally and selfishly doing something just to make yourself feel important.
@Gommers and vice versa for the men, I suppose? So... what do you think of the ones who start an affair but say the still love their spouse and yet claim to also have fallen in love with the new partner? That what they think is love is lust, pheremones, and the high from the affirmation they are receiving?
Sometimes cheating happens in a weakness moment so yeah you can still loves her. But if the cheating is intentionally then loved doesn't exist between those two peopke
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No. To me, cheating means lack of respect. And how can you love someone you don't respect? Impossible to do
Complex or what
They might care for whoever they are cheating on but to truly love them I don't think so
You wouldn't hurt your mum or dad or your kids because you love them right? So same applies to a gf/BF hubby or wife...
yes you can still love a person after you cheat on them. but you"re not IN LOVE with this person. but if you really love this person let him or her go. nobody deserves that
whats the difference between being in love and loving someone
You love your family and friends but you're in love with your girlfriend.
Absolutely - for a fantastic shag I'd do it - and it'd have zero impact on how I feel about anyone else. I think anything else is just being deluded/living in lalaland.
wow lol
When you truly love someone, you don't put your own self pleasure in front of your lotalty to them. If you do, you obviously don't love them enough.
I will never put someone before me thats just crazy
When I hear that I think of if someone where to ask "can you emotional/financially/physically abuse someone and love them?". To me no for that and for your question.
I once knew a guy who cheated on his girlfriend for almost a year he ended up marrying his girlfriend
this is where I think we are heading crazy huh
Nah, not possible. Love is selfless.
What you described is selfishness
No, because that person is thoughtless and cowardly. There are NO excuses for cheating. It is NEVER a mistake. It is always a deliberate act of betrayal.
Hell nope!
For anyone who voted 'yes' is in complete denile or is a terrible person by default.
No, that is not possible. If you love them then you can never even think of cheating on them, not even in your dreams. That's just not possible.
No. Because when you love someone you just avoid hurting them.
Its not hurting them only me if they dont know
And what happens when they find out? Not only are you a cheater, now you're a liar.
If you get hurt why do you do then?
If you loved someone, you wouldn't hurt them like that.
Sure, why not? Loving more than one person at a time is not only possible, it's very common.
No, it's not. It's a lack of education and comprehension.
@Gommers I suppose it's all about perspective. I don't think education has anything to do with how people feel about one another or interact with each other. It seems to me that cheating is more about intimacy and affirmation than anything else.
Cheating is about affirmation alone, nothing else. It serves to show that you are able to have more than one man, which is a boost to your self esteem however it also destroys your sense of self because you realize how shit of a person you are for intentionally and selfishly doing something just to make yourself feel important.
@Gommers and vice versa for the men, I suppose? So... what do you think of the ones who start an affair but say the still love their spouse and yet claim to also have fallen in love with the new partner? That what they think is love is lust, pheremones, and the high from the affirmation they are receiving?
I blame the abandonment of the two parent household and laws against infidelity.
My views on this are black and white - so the answer is no. If you cheat, your sense of love is very warped.
Absolutely not! If you loved someone, you wouldn't be able to hurt them that badly!
I don't think so becuz when you make that decision to cheat, it's like saying you're completely fine with your SO possibly leaving you
Sure you can "love" them, but if you truly love someone you'd care about them enough to not do something like that.
Sometimes cheating happens in a weakness moment so yeah you can still loves her. But if the cheating is intentionally then loved doesn't exist between those two peopke
Yes you can, but if you cheat, it means that you don't love them Enough