My boyfriend said my sister is hotter than me? What should I do? (Page 2)

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I have always been aware that my sister is gorgeous. She is younger (were both in our twenties) and looks like a blonde Victoria secret model. I don't hold it against her because she's my sister and best friend, and the kindest person I've ever known. Whenever we go out guys will flock to her and of course flirt. She has a serious boyfriend so she acts very appropriately towards them.  This past weekend, me and my boyfriend (of two years) were at a party. He was outside with a group of his guy friends talking and drinking. I was inside socializing and eventually came out for some fresh air. I don't think he realized I had come out because I was off a little distance but close enough to where I could hear what they were saying. That's when I heard his friends mention me and my sisters (I have one other) and I heard them saying how hot they were. Then, I heard my boyfriend say my younger sister was definitely the hottest. Like, not just in a sentence. Like saying she looked like a Victoria secret model. I am so hurt. I get it. She's hot. And I understand that guys will think people are prettier than me. But to actually hear it from someone you love and live with? I told him the next day and he tried to play it off like he didn't remember. Then he said he was drunk and he was sorry. I can barely look at my boyfriend now without thinking what he said. I know he loves me and he tells me I'm beautiful all the time but I'm just not sure how to work through this. I don't know what to do!

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

If you know your sister is hotter than you, why would it be a problem if he said it, too? He's not blind. Doesn't mean he likes her better than you either

Relentless_Hippie · Answer

I'd want a man who only has eyes for me just as I only have them for him.

IceCubedude · Answer

he's an ass for not lying when you werent with him, he should've said you're the numebr one chick in the world.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

I see you have two choices. Either suck it up and move on with your relationship with him or cut your losses and break up with him because of this one thing.

uglyincel · Answer

well, if i had a brother MUCH better looking than me, i wouldn't bother with relationships, i would just fuck escorts and pay them extra to tell me they love me

This_is_my_username · Answer

Your boyfriend = A dick/Asshole that can't own up to his opinion.  So disrespectful

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

He secretly means that he wants threesome with u and ur sis ;D

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i'd be pissed for awhile. while i've never thought about this since i don't have sisters, that must be hard.

Anonymous · Answer

It's just guy talk that's all, plus he was drunk so we kinda speak our mind without filtering more often. But it sounds like you both love each other so I wouldn't worry about it.

TheBigGiantHead900 · Answer

He was asked and he was just being honest. But that don't mean he doesn't love you. He been with you for 2 years. Get over it and move on.

QuietRunner · Answer

Time to leave him if he thinks your sister is hotter than maybe he should try to date her.

TripleAce · Answer

Bah nothing lol. Not very nice of him though

KiaTate · Answer

Be petty.

anonman32 · Answer

accept reality.

scooogy · Answer

Get her a boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

lucy is that you?

Anonymous · Answer

sucks for you?

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